I am insane, fickled about men and Need Help!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
I am insane, fickled about men and Need Help!!
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Fri, 12-30-2011 - 10:15pm

Today sis's ex came over and I spoke to him for a bit. We are all friends.. After that I spoke on phone with a guy friend. After that I went to lunch with a guy friend.

I walked around an area and I was looking at the men.. and didnt see anything interesting. I was in my car stopped at a light and two men glanced at me and smiled.. I smiled back of course ..

I came home and salsa man was here with sis.. we talked a bit and then he and sis left for dinner.

I got two messages on POF and I have been exchanging banter emails.. One guy gave me his number and I said I would call him.The other guy who was sooooooooooo cute said that he has not had any sucess on POF and that the women are asking him for booty calls, to stay at his house and cyber sex.. Not sure I believe it all. He lives in the Bronx..

A guy I met on POF in summer sent me a nice Christmas card with a lovely saying in it.. I wrote to him and thanked him.

The other day a guy who only wants to be my pen pal kept talking to me online .. Idle chit chat and banter.. I gave in because I was bored. He says I am very attractive and nice and I am his destiny.. whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Anyway;; Now I am confused because today I really have no desire right here in this moment to have a man .. It appears that it is too much work and they are all fickled just like I am.. I think I have had enough of men.. Well? today anyway.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011

Can you say "h-o-r-m-o-n-e-s"?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008

Not for me I dont think for that ship has sailed.. Can you say the big "M" has come and gone...

I would like to still have sex again though before I die (how many times have I said that on here)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2011

I'm just curious about something, Free - you quickly mention two male friends - one on the phone and one at lunch which means you probably enjoy talking to both and they must also like your company too. That's a lot more to offer than going through the endless clueless wonders with

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008

You are too cute JT and although I enjoy the company of two male friends neither one is emotionally stable enough for me (long story)

No; the Salsa kid is my sis's next victim .. Read other post on How to Catch