I broke up...
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I broke up...
| Sat, 08-18-2007 - 2:08pm |
well, after beating around the bush for a while, my boyfriend and I finally had the talk about how we see our future. And basically, he doesn't see a future for us, so I guess that's that. I've spent nearly two years on this man, and I feel quiet awfully betrayed and let down. I am glad that I can move on with my life and find a good relationship, but right now I am mostly a miserable mess. And I guess I was just hoping for a few kind words, maybe a little advice. Thank you so much.

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I think some people can stay in realtionships that long who can't or don't want to commit. They just enjoy the happiness of what they have as long as they can. I couldn't. I am sorry for what you are going through.
My last man friend was with me for 2 years and he walked out pretty fast, like all the soul mate talk and " I love yous" were not real. Guess they were real for the moment but not for a long time relationship. I was really hurt, we do the best we can. Took me 3 years to get over him. I still can't kiss anyone with any meaning YET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We all recover, I guess. Be very good to yourself, do the grieving and be especially good to yourself. Lots of treats, facials etc Hugs, leila
:) thank you for giving me a little laugh!
I suppose the decision to break up was fairly mutual, though difficult. And actually, I do indeed feel that I have some closure. I was thinking last night that my boyfriend and I had been walking down a dead-end path. It was a lovely path, lined with some beautiful flowers and overhanging trees rustling in the wind, but nonetheless, it was not a through street. And i saw the signs saying that, even if I chose to ignore them to keep on enjoying the walk. But eventually we had to come to the end, and it is a bummer to be there, but there is nothing to do but turn around and find a new street.
This relationship and experience has taught me some lessons. I think I will be less afraid to assess a future relationship earlier, and I think that in the right relationship, I won't fear asking those questions, because the answers won't be scary. Maybe we'll even both be asking the questions!
"Just know, the hardest part is over. And you are one step closer to finding what you are searching for.... "
That is beautiful - thank you so much!
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