I don’t chase women

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Registered: 06-02-2005
I don’t chase women
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Fri, 08-25-2006 - 5:08am

It’s not that I am super hunk but if we end up kissing intimately by the 3rd date (usually on the 2nd) things usually become uncomplicated and progress smoothly. If I don’t hear from a woman after the 2nd date or if her communication wanes I just assume that she isn’t interested. I don’t bother making too much of an effort to contact her again either.

Any thoughts/opinions?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 11:18am

Ah, ok, then perhaps I misread your original post in your thread. I thought you meant that you wouldn't call a woman after the 2nd date, and if she didn't call you (i.e., chase after you), then you would assume she wasn't interested. But perhaps you meant that if you called her and she didn't *return* your call, then you'd assume she wasn't interested. In the latter case, then yes, I'd agree.

Sheri

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 11:27am
Ah, okay.
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Registered: 06-02-2005
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 12:29pm

>reciprocates the interest and communication
>do you continue to hold up your end of the bargain?

If I am not interested I will usually make it clear early on.

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Registered: 08-14-2006
Wed, 08-30-2006 - 1:45pm

Good idea hal. Making it clear early on that you are not interested is good beucase then it doesn't string her along. I am so frustrated with guys showing interest in me and then not calling me or making some sort of communication. I may be dating inept but i know that an attempted kiss at the end of the night or some major physical contact is showing signs of interest.

Women usually know if they are interested in a guy within the first couple of minutes maybe up to an hour with him, but it seems as though it takes men longer to decide if they are interested in a girl or not.

I think that the dating game is getting frustratin for all of us. I just wish that if a guy wasn't interested that he would just say "i had a great time but to be honest im just not that interested" and girls could do the same.

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