You are a good friend but your friend is a grown adult and she chose to go home with a stranger. It's her right to do so and she wanted to or she wouldn't have secretly told him she would give him a ride without even telling you (which I find strange).
I know you are worried about her, email her, try to find her number in the book or however else and leave her a message. Try not to think the worse, I'm sure she's fine they probably just hooked up.
If she doesn't call you by tomorrow call her mom and just say "oh gosh I forgot Jane's number because it's not programmed and she dropped her cell phone in the sink so I can't call her on that can you give me her number I wanted to give her a call today and see if she wanted to go shopping" you don't have to clue her mother in on anything.
Tell your friend too next time to just be upfront with you and not be so shady.
In that case no news is good news. Tomorrow she will probably call, tell you all about it, might be a little annoyed, but glad that you were looking out for her.
I know what you meant though. There was something about the guy that set off your inner alarm, but you couldn't put your finger on it. My dad and uncle are always telling me to listen to that little voice.
I totally understand. I refuse to be alone with people like that. One night I went out after a hockey game and we were partying with some of the players and my friend who was the equipment manager of the team at the time and after the bar closed he invited the guys and us back to his place well he liked my friend so he of course wanted to go with her, so he throws me his keys to drive his car and then the equipment manager of the opposing team who had been sleazy hitting on me all night jumps in the car with me, and I'm like EH GADS get away from me, so I'm trying to figure out his car as quickly as possible so I don't lose everyone becuase I don't know how to get to his apartment and I don't want to be stuck with this guy alone any longer than I have too. So he says "Stop" and I'm like what? he takes my finger and puts it in his mouth licks it and says "I want to lick your box" I'm like 'eww yeah okay lets get going' I wanted to puke on his shoes so bad but if I didn't leave right then I would be alone with him and the guy gave me the creeps.
Once we were safely in my friends apartment with all the guys again, I could safely ignore the creepy other teams equipment manager and he could go hit on someone else, but eh gads when we were alone I was just trying not to anger him and then I told my friend DONT EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!!! Next time let him drive his own car and I'll drive with you because I got stuck with creepy molester equipment manager.
Maybe your friend just didn't want to piss him off since she had already promised him a ride home. HOWEVER, the fact that she "shook you" from the tail which I think she knew you were tailing her, she must have got over her "fear" of him. So I hope you were able to get in touch with her.
>>So he says "Stop" and I'm like what? he takes my finger and puts it in his mouth licks it and says "I want to lick your box" I'm like 'eww yeah okay lets get going' I wanted to puke on his shoes so bad but if I didn't leave right then I would be alone with him and the guy gave me the creeps.
OMG!! Who the hell are these guys??? That deserves a big smack in the face, nevermind a puke on the shoes!! God, some people have such nerve.
I found out at the start of the next hockey season that this same guy from the other team the *box* guy got married that summer to his longterm girlfriend...uggh pig!!!!! So 3 months previous when he was offering himself up to me he was engaged. BLECH!!!
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You are a good friend but your friend is a grown adult and she chose to go home with a stranger. It's her right to do so and she wanted to or she wouldn't have secretly told him she would give him a ride without even telling you (which I find strange).
I know you are worried about her, email her, try to find her number in the book or however else and leave her a message. Try not to think the worse, I'm sure she's fine they probably just hooked up.
If she doesn't call you by tomorrow call her mom and just say "oh gosh I forgot Jane's number because it's not programmed and she dropped her cell phone in the sink so I can't call her on that can you give me her number I wanted to give her a call today and see if she wanted to go shopping" you don't have to clue her mother in on anything.
Tell your friend too next time to just be upfront with you and not be so shady.
Smile,
Deirdre
Thanks.
No, I haven't.
In that case no news is good news. Tomorrow she will probably call, tell you all about it, might be a little annoyed, but glad that you were looking out for her.
I know what you meant though. There was something about the guy that set off your inner alarm, but you couldn't put your finger on it. My dad and uncle are always telling me to listen to that little voice.
"I did leave a message on her cell's voice mail, just so she'd know that I DID try to call.
I totally understand. I refuse to be alone with people like that. One night I went out after a hockey game and we were partying with some of the players and my friend who was the equipment manager of the team at the time and after the bar closed he invited the guys and us back to his place well he liked my friend so he of course wanted to go with her, so he throws me his keys to drive his car and then the equipment manager of the opposing team who had been sleazy hitting on me all night jumps in the car with me, and I'm like EH GADS get away from me, so I'm trying to figure out his car as quickly as possible so I don't lose everyone becuase I don't know how to get to his apartment and I don't want to be stuck with this guy alone any longer than I have too. So he says "Stop" and I'm like what? he takes my finger and puts it in his mouth licks it and says "I want to lick your box" I'm like 'eww yeah okay lets get going' I wanted to puke on his shoes so bad but if I didn't leave right then I would be alone with him and the guy gave me the creeps.
Once we were safely in my friends apartment with all the guys again, I could safely ignore the creepy other teams equipment manager and he could go hit on someone else, but eh gads when we were alone I was just trying not to anger him and then I told my friend DONT EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!!! Next time let him drive his own car and I'll drive with you because I got stuck with creepy molester equipment manager.
Maybe your friend just didn't want to piss him off since she had already promised him a ride home. HOWEVER, the fact that she "shook you" from the tail which I think she knew you were tailing her, she must have got over her "fear" of him. So I hope you were able to get in touch with her.
Smile,
Deirdre
>>So he says "Stop" and I'm like what? he takes my finger and puts it in his mouth licks it and says "I want to lick your box" I'm like 'eww yeah okay lets get going' I wanted to puke on his shoes so bad but if I didn't leave right then I would be alone with him and the guy gave me the creeps.
OMG!! Who the hell are these guys??? That deserves a big smack in the face, nevermind a puke on the shoes!! God, some people have such nerve.
Want to hear the even grosser part?
I found out at the start of the next hockey season that this same guy from the other team the *box* guy got married that summer to his longterm girlfriend...uggh pig!!!!! So 3 months previous when he was offering himself up to me he was engaged. BLECH!!!
Smile,
Deirdre
Who the heck would marry him?? Gross...
Anyway, let us know if your friend's all right, Shy.
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