I gotta share this....

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Registered: 01-24-2011
I gotta share this....
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Sat, 08-25-2012 - 8:42pm

This is from the guy who still insist that I go uptown where it is convenient for him to meet me. I ignored his email and this is what I got. I asked him to meet me in a place convenient to me and he ignored that. oh well.

 

Lynn,

You are 36 and still single and have no children. The reason for that is obvious: you are rude and arrogant.

I asked you on Thursday if you could meet me this Saturday (today). I was waiting for a response from you. You should have said "no" if you didn't want to go out. But instead, you kept me waiting and still haven't responded.

Your attitude is obviously terrible. I can see why you are still single and without children at your age, and will probably remain that way for the rest of you life.

I am a male. So, age will make no difference on me having children in the future. I was married once before and will be married again in the future, unlike you.

Enjoy you single life.

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Registered: 05-10-2005
Sat, 08-25-2012 - 9:30pm

whoa!!!  I think you dodged a bullet there, so to speak.  No one should be that angry over planning a date.

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 12:20am
Well now you know that he is not only lazy, but rude too! Good grief he'd be a nightmare to date.
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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 12:59am
I can almost taste the bitterness from here! He may be married again in the future, but I doubt he'll ever be happy.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 10:25am

Pathetic. Yet another reason to hate online dating. I used to say "Thanks, but no thanks," when I wasn't interested in someone, but after a few nastygrams like this, I quit responding.  So, any of you men out there who are wondering why you don't get replies: it's guys like this who ruin it for the nice guys.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 10:50am

I agree and that is very harsh to say to someone you dont even know.. I bet he wont be getting many dates or a new wife. He has to get off of his high horse dont you think??

I sometimes over the three years I have been OLD have gotten some nasty comments and things but its very few and far between so thank Goodness these are isolated cases.

One has to weed out the idiots so just delete his notes and block him and move on.. You dont need that negative stuff in your life..

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 10:55am

That's super over-reacting, don't you think?  I've had guys ghost on me & while I didn't like it, I didn't feel the need to send them a nasty message.  There was one guy who emailed me for the sole purpose of telling me that basically I wasn't really average weight (too fat apparently) and then I read his profile and it was totally negative to women.  All about "I don't like it when women do" this & that--I'll bet that guy is getting tons of dates--and he was no prize either.

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 11:07am
Lynn, when I was doing OLD I got a lot of these types of responses after either ignoring them or shooting them down. Unfortunately, I think it's fairly common. Don't take it personally. (What a loser)
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Registered: 01-24-2011
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 6:03pm

This guy told me that he got 4 university degrees and one masters and a side job as an real estate agent. But he refuses to tell me what he does as a full time job.

For some reason, the 4 degrees seems like a red flag to  me. Like he cannot get a job in the field and goes back to school.

 

No, I am not sad at all. I just wanted to share with you guys how mean some people are out there.

 

I have been ignored too but I have never taken the time to send out a nasty email to anyone.

 

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 6:47pm
He did tell you what his full time job was....going to school lol!
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Registered: 01-24-2011
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 8:23pm

Maybe you are right. His full time job is being a student. Sometimes I am soooo slow.

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