I like him, but...
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| Sat, 02-25-2006 - 5:20pm |
I have a concern about a guy, same guy I talked about in my previous post a few weeks back. Well we went on a date last tuesday, he was very sweet and a complete gentleman. Now we're both quite shy and niether of us had the nerve to initiate any physical contact. Which is fine. We talked online later and he told me he wanted to hug me or hold my hand but was too shy. He kept refering to "next time", which indicates to me he wants to see me again. The reason we have not made a next date yet is because he is quite busy at work this week due to a large music festival in town, and he works nights.
Now comes the but... but he has made comments to my roomate (they've been friends for over 5 years, I recently just met him) about dreaming of her and them fooling around and just today having sex. Its not the dreams that make me wonder, its that he tells her about them, and then my roomate tells me... She's the one who introduced us, wouldn't she think thats a bit strange to tell me? Or were these shared because it was rather odd since they are friends and they would think its funny? I'm just not sure if this is something that should make me a bit apprehensive... I guess I don't trust my own judgement due to past bad decisions LOL
Any thoughts appreciated! I do like this guy and would like to see where things could go, but I don't want to date stupidly. Thanks :)

I would wonder if he knows that she told you.
Thanks for your reply :)
I had wondered about his interest level as well. At first I thought he wasn't interested at all, then he approached me about going out. So I figured he was just being shy. But perhaps he is shy and just not 100% interested LOL.
I have no idea if he is interested in my friend... She had a bf the first time him and I met, and then the next week her bf broke up with her (or on a break, whatever that means), and this week we went on a date. They have both been single at the same time before, but never dated. Though my friend commented to me (prior to her break-up) that she didn't know why they never dated...
I asked her why he would tell her about his dreams and she said because he knows it probably would never happen. LOL I still don't know what to make of it. I think I will just lie low and if he does want to pursue something with me, he is free to do that. Does that sound reasonable?