I love attention

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
I love attention
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Sun, 01-22-2012 - 11:46am
I hate being the center of attention in a large group, but there's something about having the attention of a man...or a few men...to make a woman feel attractive. We celebrated a friend's 30th birthday last night and ended up sitting right by the stage. There were several women there obviously dressed to get the attention of the men in the bar. Many of them were desperately trying to get the attention of the lead singer in the band. He was hot. He was also ignoring them. It didn't take long before I noticed one of the guitar players eyeing me. I caught him several times even. Later on, the lead singer and I began having moments...prolonged eye contact, smiles...he was yummy. I never talked to him, and the guitar player was married, so nothing came of it. That doesn't really matter, though. Sometimes the attention is all that matters. Someone should tell the sexy dancing girls that were there that sometimes subtlety works much better!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2012
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 1:43pm

Sounds good! :smileyhappy: I especially like your last sentence - as I am definitely not one of those "sexy dancing girls". Subtlety is my middle name, hehe! I have a thing for musicians, and have laid my eyes on a handsome bass player whom I have seen on stage many times now - and he lives in my neighbourhood. However, I find it so difficult making eye contact with him - as with any guy I really like - I get incredibly shy and just have to look away in fear of turning red as a tomato (or, of the guy not looking back - it makes me feel stupid and unattractive). And so, nothing ever happens. But, will keep on trying! I really like this guy. :smileyhappy:

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 3:58pm
I usually have a problem with eye contact, too. After awhile, though, it became a game to see how many times we could get caught or how long one of them could hold it while playing/singing. Once I treated like a game, it was much easier!