I love being alone..that's the problem
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| Mon, 03-05-2007 - 3:20pm |
I live alone, and I love it. I love coming home at night and not having to worry about what's for supper. I love not having to be waked up several times a night to roll a snorer over after he wakes me up, and being perpetually sleep deprived. I love being able to stay on the computer all night, or watch what I want to watch on t.v. without an argument. I love not having to have sex...seriously! I mean, sex is great, but I just don't need it that much, so having to have it to please a man is not my cup of tea. I even find myself breaking dates because I'd rather just be here reading or doing whatever.
O.K., so I contradicted myself on another board saying I couldn't get over my ex, and that's true, but the thing is, I don't think I would ever want to LIVE with him. I'm not sure I would ever want to live with anyone. I've only lived with one man since my divorce (many years ago), and that was a big mistake. The live in relationship lasted 4 years, and it drove me insane!
Having to pick up after him, cook for him, clean for him, watch him get fat eating junk food, all just made me long to be alone.
So is it unhealthy NOT to ever want to live with someone or be married again? Is it age related (I'm over 40)? Maybe hormone related?

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