I met someone but.....

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Registered: 07-03-2003
I met someone but.....
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Thu, 10-27-2005 - 11:56am
I went out friday for my birthday for the first time in 3 years(after having my son), I met this guy, he seems great, not married no gf, asked me, i told him i'm a single mom, brought up how he loves kids and showed me pics of his nephews and nieces, and made it a point to let me know that he's had gf's in the past with kids. Well, after spending that whole time in the club, dancing and then talkin', he got my cell #, and walked me to my friends car, then he called me right away, to ask (another story=) ) if my friend was ok (she got lost), and asked if i was ok to drive because i was going to pick up my car at my friends....we talked until i made it home, and he told me that he'd call me, that he wasn't going to call right away because he's sure i'm busy.....I was like well ok, you can call whenever.....well it will be a week tomorrow, and he hasn't called since, hmmm....i guess he's just not that into me. I think i was getting my hopes up, he seemed perfect, but it's the first time i've been out in years, so i'm sure i'll get over it, if i got over what babydaddy did to me, i'm sure i can make it through dating lol...so what do you guys think?? I know, i know, but sometimes when other people tell you it makes you really see.

 

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 4:15pm
Men don't think on the same time line that we do. It's not even been a week. Give him a chance.
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Registered: 08-13-2005
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 7:17pm
I agree with the other note leaver- I'd give him a bit more time. He may have really meant that he actually will be busy and actually wont be able to call right away- many people are quite literal and it's not always about playing games or things like that.
Give him a bit more time and after the 2 week mark if you haven't heard from him, then tell yourself "he wasn't that into you" and move on :)
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 7:24pm

I wouldn't expect him to call. That way if he does, it'll be a pleasant surprise.