i think i know what men want
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i think i know what men want
| Sat, 10-15-2005 - 8:31pm |
men say they want a nice girlfriend..they say that nice women don`t want them..but you know what?they always seem to like women who are very slutty,ditzy,and or nutty..does anyone else agree with me on this?I am not the type to go to bed soon..which is why i don`t date..why bother,and is it fair to tease a guy by going out to a movie with him or dinner when there is just one thing he wants really?

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Ah, yeah. Of course men are on their best behavior in the begining. That's no secret, at all! So are women at first. Just like men can "think" they like you one moment and change their mind another minute . It's called they don't know what they want because they're unsure. It's also called immaturity. They need to "grow up". That's why one guy will give up a chance to date a beautiful "good" girl, to date a "not so cute" or annoying girl just to get laid. Or they complain they want a nice girl, yet they never want to date one. Again, these boys need to grow up. Some do it in college and want to marry right away. For some others, it takes a lot longer. Sometimes never. If you see a forty something still single and had never been married, then run!!!
About the sex thing. I am glad you seem to know what you're willing keep sacred. If it means that much to you, then maybe you should consider a Christian dating website where you are more likely to meet guys with the same moral standards. I think I believe it was the previous post who said that maybe you're looking in the wrong spots for guys. I think maybe you are. Quite frankly, I don't know where you're meeting these sex crazed guys. I date, sometimes often. And no, I am NOT easy. I have never had a guy expect antything more than I wanted. I find most men are quite polite. My advice is to date a little older than yourself, even if it is two years older. In general, this is when the guy and girl seem to be on a better wavelength. Whoever said guys don't mature slower is a little off the mark. They do and that is why you find guys date slighty younger women.
I don't think anyone is denying there are jerks out there. Hell, we've all run into them. It's a part of growing, learning and moving on. Honestly, if you never had to deal with jerks before, do you really think you'd be able to appreciate the goods one later on??? This is the last point I am going to make on this dicussion. Yes, there are jerks out there,but there are also a lot of good men out there, too. Try to keep and open mind.
Calie
Why in the WORLD did you post this message in the first place? You're obviously totally convinced that every guy out there is a total jerk...and if there ARE good guys out there, they're only attracted to the slutty, bitchy girls.
All we have been trying to do is to try and make you see that there ARE decent guys out there, and there are decent girls out there too! But, you're not listening to us, you just reply to every single message with something about how much guys suck, and how they're all only looking for sex, or whatever...
Well, if that's what you think, then that's fine. You're entitled to your own opion, and I'm sorry for what you must have gone through in order to feel like that. BUT, don't post messages about it if you're just going to shoot everyone else's opinion, life experience, and advice down.
Alyssa
I say why date if you are not going to put out on the date?
Men go out and have a good time until they find a woman worth staying home. Its as simple and as complicated as that.
I would argue that women do the exact same thing, except as in some other aspects of life, women reach that point faster than men. Doesn't make men the bad ones.
Rubyshoes
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