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i think i know what men want
| Sat, 10-15-2005 - 8:31pm |
men say they want a nice girlfriend..they say that nice women don`t want them..but you know what?they always seem to like women who are very slutty,ditzy,and or nutty..does anyone else agree with me on this?I am not the type to go to bed soon..which is why i don`t date..why bother,and is it fair to tease a guy by going out to a movie with him or dinner when there is just one thing he wants really?

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Sorry, but there are many men and women who do not believe in pre-marital sex. And they do date. Dating isn't all about sex for *everyone*.
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When I was single, I would refuse to sleep with a man once I found he didn't believe in wearing condoms. That's a big reason why men don't get laid. Its their refusal to practice safe sex.
Go back and find anywhere in this thread that someone outrightly said that people are perverts for liking sex and I might find some basis for your argument.
Rubyshoes
Edited 11/10/2005 5:01 pm ET by rubyshoes03
rubyshoes03,
I appreciate your trying to get through to this woman, but we're apparently just giving her more of a chance to spout off the same ridiculous crap... I say we go on about our business and let her get back to filming Whitesnake videos.
Well, people who wait until marriage are not "teases" or prudes, either. Pre-marital sex is not for everyone.
I feel sorry for any woman who thinks she is obligated to jump in bed with a guy after he spends two hours with her at a movie.
Thank goodness a lot of women don't think like you (as is being proven by the responses on this thread). The world would be a very dangerous place if all men got what they wanted the second they wanted it.
I happen to like sex. I look forward to it when I'm in a relationship... when I have gotten to know the person that I'm going to sleep with... once I have enough of a feeling for him to know that he's not some degenerate who has unprotected sex with every girl he goes on one date with. And at the risk of sounding like a "Sandra Dee" I have sex with someone when I have developed feelings for him. I don't just give my body over to anyone just because they might not stick around if I don't... and let me say again, I like sex. So it's not a matter of being a prude. It's a matter of having some self-respect. If they don't want to stick around, GREAT! I wouldn't want a guy like that to be in my life anyway! I know that all guys want sex. We all know that. You're not enlightening us there. But do you just think that your other qualities aren't enough to keep them around?
Let me ask you this... if you find some guy who you really like... who you grow to care about.. you two have a commitment... and he wants to sleep with the hot girl at his work, will you be okay with that? I mean, everyone knows men want sex with hot co-workers. It's in their nature. Would you be okay with that too? Would you chastise those women who would have a problem with it?
Edited 11/11/2005 3:08 pm ET by l0stprophet
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