i think i know what men want

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i think i know what men want
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Sat, 10-15-2005 - 8:31pm
men say they want a nice girlfriend..they say that nice women don`t want them..but you know what?they always seem to like women who are very slutty,ditzy,and or nutty..does anyone else agree with me on this?I am not the type to go to bed soon..which is why i don`t date..why bother,and is it fair to tease a guy by going out to a movie with him or dinner when there is just one thing he wants really?

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 10:51am
At least she responded to what you had to say - she totally ignored my posts. But, truthfully, I am OK with that because I don't feel like beating my head against a brick wall.
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Registered: 10-27-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 10:56am
it is never a woman`s fault if she gets raped..but teasing a man is never ok either...you know what...my posts were for the original poster who whines men don`t want he because she doesn`t want sex with them after dating them few times..well whatever.continue to date men for a month and still not put out then..go into a guy`s apt and give him the impression for sex....it is asking for trouble..if a woman is not into having sex when dating a guy,she should stay the hell home and be single...My god....according ot her we are perverts if we like sex
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Registered: 08-09-2004
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 12:02pm

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Sorry, but there are many men and women who do not believe in pre-marital sex. And they do date. Dating isn't all about sex for *everyone*.

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Thu, 11-10-2005 - 12:11pm

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When I was single, I would refuse to sleep with a man once I found he didn't believe in wearing condoms. That's a big reason why men don't get laid. Its their refusal to practice safe sex.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 4:25pm

Go back and find anywhere in this thread that someone outrightly said that people are perverts for liking sex and I might find some basis for your argument.

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Edited 11/10/2005 5:01 pm ET by rubyshoes03

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Registered: 10-28-2005
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 9:04am

rubyshoes03,

I appreciate your trying to get through to this woman, but we're apparently just giving her more of a chance to spout off the same ridiculous crap... I say we go on about our business and let her get back to filming Whitesnake videos.

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 10:17am
that comment about whitesnake videos ..i am not sure what you are getting at...anyways we are entitled to our opinions..there is no doubt that men want sex when they go out on a date with a woman..you would have to have rocks in your head to not know this..women shouldn`t get pissed and complain it is all men care about...then don`t go places alone with them..it is that simple..don`t dress like a slut then complain guys are looking..the original poster goes on how men like ditzes and sluts...well if liking sex and not waiting until marriage makes me and others a slut then so be it.I probably get more dates and have more men liking me for being fun and like to go out and have a good time and not be so upitight like a little Sandra Dee than she ever will..guys don`t like prudes..they want women who aren`t going to keep them waiting 6 mos to do the "evil deed"I am not a sperm deposit..i am just not a little tease
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Fri, 11-11-2005 - 11:37am

Well, people who wait until marriage are not "teases" or prudes, either. Pre-marital sex is not for everyone.
I feel sorry for any woman who thinks she is obligated to jump in bed with a guy after he spends two hours with her at a movie.

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Registered: 10-17-2005
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 12:46pm

Thank goodness a lot of women don't think like you (as is being proven by the responses on this thread). The world would be a very dangerous place if all men got what they wanted the second they wanted it.

I happen to like sex. I look forward to it when I'm in a relationship... when I have gotten to know the person that I'm going to sleep with... once I have enough of a feeling for him to know that he's not some degenerate who has unprotected sex with every girl he goes on one date with. And at the risk of sounding like a "Sandra Dee" I have sex with someone when I have developed feelings for him. I don't just give my body over to anyone just because they might not stick around if I don't... and let me say again, I like sex. So it's not a matter of being a prude. It's a matter of having some self-respect. If they don't want to stick around, GREAT! I wouldn't want a guy like that to be in my life anyway! I know that all guys want sex. We all know that. You're not enlightening us there. But do you just think that your other qualities aren't enough to keep them around?

Let me ask you this... if you find some guy who you really like... who you grow to care about.. you two have a commitment... and he wants to sleep with the hot girl at his work, will you be okay with that? I mean, everyone knows men want sex with hot co-workers. It's in their nature. Would you be okay with that too? Would you chastise those women who would have a problem with it?

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 12:53pm
i don`t have sex after 2 hrs of seeing a movie or by 3rd date...at least of month of waiting is good...anything beyond that,not guy will stick around,that i have across of...and I have gotten dumped LOTS of times for NOT putting out after 2 weeks...just because I say men are after sex,it does not mean I do it with whoever....guys won`t respect you more just because you don`t sleep around


Edited 11/11/2005 3:08 pm ET by l0stprophet

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