I think I"ve temporarily given up looking for a guy

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Registered: 11-28-1999
I think I"ve temporarily given up looking for a guy
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Tue, 03-27-2012 - 9:02pm

I'm more or less done w/ OLD--my match subscription ran out and I didn't renew and I haven't even been tempted to look--every time they send me one of those emails w/ potential matched, it's always guys who have been on forever and I probably already tried emailing them anyway.

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Registered: 01-02-2008

Right now i will settle for Part time; Anytime, fling or whatever..

I see this post is turning into something more positive and I think that is so much better than the title ..

Anita;; thank you and I love the story of your grandmother!!!!!

Music;;; Dont stop looking because I truly believe its the journey that gets us to the place we need to go whether that might be just dating, a fling, a part time lover or full blown relationship. Just enjoy it all!!

Now with my 15 lb. weight loss I intend on wearing a bathing suit and going swimming.. Hey; Maybe an old man from the retirement beach home will notice me and hopefully his toupe wont fly off in the beach wind.. I will tell him I love bald men and not to worry and we sail off on his yacht into the sunset..

:smileyhappy:

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Registered: 09-12-2005
musiclover12 wrote:

I like the idea of part time lover too--at least right for now where I still have a teenager at home.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
freeatlast2008 wrote:

Music;;; Dont stop looking because I truly believe its the journey that gets us to the place we need to go whether that might be just dating, a fling, a part time lover or full blown relationship. Just enjoy it all!!

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Registered: 11-28-1999

Free,

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I might consider having a FWB or a fling or whatever you want to call it, but I can't imagine posting a profile actually advertising that I would want to have sex w/ a stranger.

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Registered: 04-17-2008

Of course the rest of us would love to meet a great guy.

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Registered: 01-02-2008

I know what you are saying and it does feel like beating heads against walls.. I guess I waffle from having hope to not having hope..What keeps me thinking it could happen is that I have had many relationships, been married twice and during my sep. and divorce I was in a rebound relationship. After that which was 2008 I went on a dating site and I started going out alot.. In those times I did get many dates and I did have a two month relationship with someone who was younger than me.. Granted now I am almost 58 and its surely going downhill fast but I do still get complimented on my looks and I still get men writing to me from the dating site.. So I guess I am not being realistic about it? I dont know but I do have men friends also who say that I can still get a man.He might be older or younger or that I would have to settle but they think I

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Registered: 05-14-1999

I feel the same way you do, G.

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Registered: 01-02-2008

omg.. CFK..

I have

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Registered: 04-17-2008

Thanks, cfk,