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I'd like to take a vote
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:02pm

In January, this guy, J, sent me an icebreaker on Yahoo.

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:22pm

He's one or more of the following: not all THAT interested, not available and/or not emotionally healthy.

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Sheri

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:26pm

1. Not interested enough
2. Other "irons in the fire"
3. A whacko

Just my opinion. My harsh, judgemental opinion.

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:29pm

I read somewhere that men who either text or email as their main source of communication is less likely to take relationships with any grain of salt. With that being said, because of my own experience with these type of guys, is that they're not really looking for a relationship with anyone. Whether they realize it or not, they like to toy with people. They will blame you for not calling, when the ball was actually in their court and they will text you when they are drunk.....etc. These men who email or text are really immature men who do not care whether they are in a relationship and will definately do nothing to foster a new one. Hence always texting you, especially at odd times for what should be important issues for the phone or in person. I say move on and cut off all ties with this guy. He is NOT good news....

Calie

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:34pm
I think he's interested in something, but not necessarily a relationship. Who honestly texts at 2am someone they want a relationship with?

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 9:38pm

Here's my opinion - if he IS interested, he better get a clue!!!

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 11:01pm

Exactly.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 2:39am

I don't think he knows what he wants...so he's keeping you n a srng. Good luck. Men suck.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 3:54am
Not interested enough and totally clueless!

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 7:43am
AAACK!!
He'd drive me out of my mind!
He sounds very insecure, in my opinion. If you were to go out with him, he'd probably stand you up, break so many dates and keep apologizing over and over again. What a trip.
I don't think he's all that interested and he probably wants to know that you're more interested in him. I'm glad you ignore him now. He deserves it.
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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 8:12am
He's not interested enough to make any kind of effort with you. Either that, or he's completely socially inept.


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