I'd like to take a vote

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I'd like to take a vote
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 8:02pm

In January, this guy, J, sent me an icebreaker on Yahoo.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 5:39pm
Ya'll crack me up. Men bashers? What am I? Just kidding.
And I was drunk on here the other night. I didn't post hee hee!!!
Seriously now though, Shy, what would you tell us to do? That should be your answer!
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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 5:53pm
Yeah no men bashers around here. Which is refreshing. I dont tend to bash men as a rule...it never gets me anywhere, single or attached.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 6:56pm

Apparently, y'all missed that last line where I said I knew exactly how I felt about the situation.


I was trying to prove a point: This guy is NOT interested in actually dating, despite some random signals he may be sending out.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 6:58pm
You always tell the guys to make a move quickly and then you let this guy hang around for four months.... By the way, in response to your other post, I know that women are pretty, but you didn't have to rub it! :)
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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 6:58pm

I'm interested to know how you feel about this guy's actions, Hal.


The other women say he's not interested.

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Tue, 04-11-2006 - 7:11pm

Amazing.

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 2:58am

I have been constantly reminded that if a guy doesn’t CALL within a few days of getting a woman’s number she will lose interest (No matter how many times I hear that it still cracks me up). You e-mailed this guy (against your better judgement apparently) and two weeks later gave him your number even though he didn’t ask. Instead of calling you within 7 days he sent an e-mail and you still responded and arranged a date. Your predicament fascinates me because it is situations like this where I learn how women really behave in the dating world.

I would like to know why you went on a date with this guy and why you are still interested in him?

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 7:48am

I'm not still interested!

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 10:50am
I'm with you on this one. Men who act like this don't get a second of my time. Who cares what HIS issues are, move past this one real fast.
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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 10:50am
Soft spot for second chances? Shy, you appear to contradict what you say about first chances. You say that you aren’t still interested in him but what I would like to know is why you went on a date with him in the first place? He called (after some prodding) two weeks after he got your number.