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| Sun, 11-27-2005 - 2:58pm |
If your single are you waiting for marriage to have sex?
- yes.
- no.
You will not be able to change your vote.

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I'm sorry but I think Lostprophet is giving bad advice and I wouldn't listen to him.
There are guys out there willing to wait for the right lady. My ex and I had a sexual relationship for 8 years, until he found Christianity. He then stopped having sex with me and when we broke up only weeks later (for totally different reasons), he then met another like-minded Christian woman, waited to have sex and married her a year later (much to my chagrin).
Even though I choose not to wait, I still think it is an honorable thing to hold out for a true love. My best suggestion to you is to try a Christian dating site so you can connect with men that feel the same.
Good luck!
THank you for the clarification. I thought you were a woman from your earlier posts, but then figured maybe the last poster knew something I didn't. I personally don't care what you do or don't do in your personal life but I find it offensive that you continually harp on this whole notion that men only care about sex. I have met many men in my life and not all of them were interested in getting into my pants. Of course there are players out there and that is their sole purpose but there are also a lot of men who are not like that. There are men who are also willing to wait until they get married to have sex.
Heather, you need to get involved in church groups. I live in upstate NY and there are singles groups specifically for Christians. Look into what is offered in your area. I'm sure there must be something. This is obviously an important issue for you and I don't think you should compromise. Surround yourself with people who feel as you do and you will find someone. Good luck.
yes she needs to become a nun at this point..ever other day is a poll and she gets too upset..I just tell it like it is,many men won`t want to be bothered..it is life..do I cry over guys who want to do me on first date?no way because if it is all they care about then they do nothing for me.If NOT having sex bothers someone,then they should go out and do it already...just to be disappointed if the pressure is to much for them..otherwise quit labeling or doing polls ..i was never pregnant and I don`t have any diseases and i don`t use sex to get men...how many men run to you with your beliefs?so your tactic is not working either,so don`t judge ME
Heather,
Like it or not, this poll gives an accurate accounting of the acceptance of premarital sex in today's mainstream society. Most dating relationships eventually involve sex as couples move on to greater levels of intimacy. However, I believe that you should not do anything, including anything sexual, that you believe to be wrong. Find a conservative church for a dating pool.
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