I'm a guy, need some womens' opinions
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| Sat, 05-17-2008 - 12:40pm |
Figured if you wanted a woman's candid opinion, might as well ask a women's site.
Just wondering, what's a woman's view on a guy flying solo at the bar/club? Are you creeped out? (would you eject immediately if I came and asked your opinion on flannel?)
Let me explain. I'm a guy thats lost a couple good wingmen. My best friends from high school moved out of state, and my two best buds from college are now in California. My snowboarding buddy has this new girlfriend that thinks I'm a bad influence, and is relentlessly whipping him into shape.
So here I am thinking, "man it'd be nice just to chill out and have a beer with the boys or a cute girl", but with all my wings gone, I'm too self conscious to go it alone and chill.
So an honest opinion would help here. What do you think of a guy flying solo? Just be honest, its an internet post, you're not going to hurt my feelings (I think my lady friends are too worried about me to tell me what they really think).

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First, I am a man, and I am sure the girls will pipe in behind me. However it just seemed an odd question. Isn't measuring your value by the size of your entourage kind of like measuring it by the size of your wanker, or the size of your wallet? If you cant say yours is bigger than his
I think that as long as you're not creepy and you don't stay in one place all night, no one will notice.
On the basis of being out alone I doubt any woman worth her salt would be turned off.
My two cents: I probably wouldn't think much of it as I go into a bar by myself once in a while to have a beer and just watch the game or people-watch.
I think it would depend on your demeanor. If you just sit there and stare at everyone, or a girl you find attractive, then, yeah - you're going to look somewhat creepy. On the other hand, if you're just hanging out, making chit-chat with the other folks who are there, then no, I would just think that you stopped in to have a beer and make chit-chat and nothing more. No big deal.
I say go for it, just no cheesy lines.
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You mean you don't go week in the knees for BS? LoL I like to "meet" people. I just had
The older I get, the more important that truth is to me. The good, the bad, whatever . . I am who I am.
Can I ask what kind of stuff your friend was saying to the guy in the big talk?
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Hmm . . . context?
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