Hello everyone. I'm currently talking to this guy that i've met as a kid - 20 years ago. We haven't seen each other in 8 years because he moved away to another state. I just recently got ahold of him and we're talking. Its been 4 months and 2 phone calls. I REALLY like him but I dont know how to say it to him. I haven't done this before and I have a big fear of rejection. This guy is very nice, talks to me when I call (he hasn't called me yet, and its understandable - he's really busy with his job - he does want to get back to me when he can, but it takes patience), emails when he has the time and just 2 weeks ago, we've planned to go out for coffee when he comes to visit my state. Just dont know WHEN yet. We've already tried twice before about getting together, but didn't work out.
So here's my question - should I wait and see him first or email/call about my feelings? I'm just so scared of what he's going to say. There are some possiblities that he's interested as well, but it can be hard.
If anyone can help, it would be appreciated. Thanks!