Im single but I feel in love`PLEASE HELP

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Im single but I feel in love`PLEASE HELP
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Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:56pm

Now im not sure if he wants to be with me or not he says that he likes me hes just not sure see wwe started sleepin with each other bout 6 months ago telin each other that we would not have any other sexual partners which wa perfectly fine with me but sumwhere between the sex long talks and the phone calls i feel in love with him and now i dontkno what to do about it

I seriuosly love him with all my heart and I always will he will always have that special place with me! I need avice please

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:03pm

So are you dating him, or just sleeping with him?


Either way, you need to talk to HIM.

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:11pm
NO were not datin we have just beein sleepin together for the past 6 months and I feelin love with him!
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:13pm

And that's the problem with friends with benefits.

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:15pm
well se im not angry with him me and him are so close!
we talk all the time like at least once a day
So i m guessin i need to just tell him everything
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:34pm

I just did what I should have done first- read your profile.


Now you're going to sit and listen, whether you like it or not.

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:45pm

First off I really wanted to thank you for all the help you just gave me and yes ai understand that im young and shouldnt be doin the stuff that I am doing! I have quit drinkin I havent got drunk in so long yea i miss it b/cof course I had fun when i was partyin but i have quit and come to realize that it was stupid! not only to do it but it makes u do stupid things!

I really do love justin and I kno i cant make him like/love me no matter what I do if things are meant to be there meant to be!

sex is a really special thing and already I regret bein with 2 ppl that I have they both played me and it makes me look bad that i have been 3 ppl and i really wish i could take so many things back and im only 16!!!!!!!!!! one thing i dotn want to take back is bein with justin
but onc again thanks for everything more advice is needed lol
lots of love
Christina

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Registered: 01-03-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 3:49pm
I agree with Shy on this one. Your headed down a very dangerous path. The decisions your making now could affectthe rest of your life. Please seek counseling or talk with someone you trust.