I'm too easy

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Registered: 02-26-2011
I'm too easy
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Tue, 12-13-2011 - 7:24pm

Remember those square party favors we got as kids, where you moved around 9 little squares on a board into alphabetical or numerical order? Like, the precursor of the Rubic's cube?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 10:26pm

Oh dear, don't get your hopes up too much for right now.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 12-13-2011 - 11:02pm
I think the problem is that you're in love with infatuation. We've heard the same "I've met a wonderful man and no other man matters" story from you many, many times. That's just not normal. You're infatuated- with what, I'm not sure. Power? Money? Prestige? Attention? French cuffs? Whatever it is, you're going to continue on the roller coaster until you decide the thrill isn't worth it anymore or the whole thing derails.

To be honest, your stories are getting more and more difficult to believe. I can't imagine anyone having that many men at their disposal in such a short period of time. It's just not realistic.
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 6:54pm

Shy, your skepticism is fascinating!

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 7:09pm

I was fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with the boy who was the basketball center on the team opposite the one I was cheering for - when I was only 14.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 8:46pm

I think it is more unusual that you meet so many men to date, but I think it's based on a number of factors.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 10:14pm

Marina,

From your past direct response to me, I know that you do not like my comments.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 12-14-2011 - 11:04pm

There is the ability to be present in any activity.

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-15-2011 - 8:17pm

Thanks Mark.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-15-2011 - 8:22pm

xxxs, I do think that's part of it. It's very rare that I leave the house (except for sports, as Music wrote, but my sport is much more aggressive than dancing) without thinking about how I will appear.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 12-16-2011 - 1:07am
Thanks for that feedback. Great reminder how people respond more favorably when connection is the intention rather than teaching/preaching/advice giving.