I'm too sexy for this shirt, too sexy for this club...

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I'm too sexy for this shirt, too sexy for this club...
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Tue, 10-04-2011 - 2:22am

OK, so I talked for an hour tonight to man who is a successful doctor, my age, VGL, not all that curious about the world but very confident in himself. VERY confident.

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Registered: 11-28-1999

Unfortunately the desire for perfectionism seems to happen w/ a lot of men and then they wonder why they can't find anyone who meets their qualifications.

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Registered: 03-27-2003

For me the people I am attracted to tend to have more questions, i.e. curiosity than answers.

Mark

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Registered: 01-25-2010

What questions

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-26-2011

Well, I DIDN'T ask if he prefers 12 year olds!

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'.. This man will NEVER find what he wants - it won't be me, it won't be any other woman. At 47, he's stuck in perfectionism and that's just where it has to end'

Marina..apologies and all that..but, based on what I've read so far, so are you. You too want perfection that doesn't exist. You want a very good looking very clever very successful very rich 45+ man with a new expensive car and a very large house. This is your unattainable perfection. What's the difference between him and you?
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He asked me why I wrote him an email saying "Thanks anyway but I think this is not going to work."

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Sounds like sarcasm to me. Of course, if he told you he was looking for a 10, he might have very well thought you were one.
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Registered: 02-26-2011

Sounds to me like he was pouting because his little arrogant doctor self got rejected.

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I had an interesting conversation w/ a female coworker today.

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Registered: 02-26-2011

Ewww.

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