Infatuated

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Registered: 10-29-2011
Infatuated
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Sat, 10-29-2011 - 7:45pm
I had posted this question on "Ask the Dating Expert" and got no answer, so I will post here as well. There is this guy at this center that I go to that I like. I've known him for about 3 weeks but I seem to be infatuated (its not mere physical attration-it is mainly his personality). I'm not going to rush into any relationship, I just want to be friends with the guy and get to know him better. I don't know how to do this because I'm not in the same group as him anymore, and we only get to talk to each other a little when we see each other. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or not. He is nice to me but I don't know if he is a good person or not. I know his brother isnt because I have reasearched his brother online (his brother is a local celebrity) and the guy I like has tight affiliations with his brother. What do you think I should do?
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 10-29-2011 - 9:57pm

Hi Ladybug!

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 8:55am

There's nothing wrong with flirting with him a little, even if he does turn out to be a bad guy.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 2:40pm

Shy, I never thought of that! "Where he puts his hands" and "how tightly he hugs you".

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Mon, 10-31-2011 - 3:17pm
The next time you are speaking with him, why not just say: "Hey, let me give you my number, maybe we can grab a drink sometime."?