Insanity 101 - a free lesson!

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Insanity 101 - a free lesson!
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Sat, 10-29-2011 - 10:07pm

This is a mini-course on how to go insane in just four days.

1. Go out on a date with a guy who is just leaving a long term marriage, whom one knows professionally anyway and on whom one had a private crush for months.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 10-29-2011 - 11:33pm

dragowoman

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Sun, 10-30-2011 - 11:40am

Seriously I can't imagine why you'd waste your time going on a date w/ geeky guy when it NEVER has worked out in the past and there will be even less likelihood of you having a good time when you are comparing him w/ handsome gent. no. 1.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 2:48pm

I went out with Geeky Guy anyway, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings.

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Sun, 10-30-2011 - 4:39pm

Sad Update:

1. I realized I have to dump my stingy geeky guy 100% - ASAP.

2. I realized that I just have to set really clear professional boundaries with my 70+ y/o suitor tonight when he arrives in LA.

3. Worst of all: the man I have the crush on posted FB pictures this morning.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 8:58pm

I find that w/ really old men it's great to be nice to them but act like they are your grandfather, like isn't it cute that you are saying those flattering things, but of course given our age difference you couldn't be serious?

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 10-30-2011 - 9:53pm

Music, your comment about my current crush is true.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 12:26pm

Marina:

dragowoman

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 2:26pm

Maybe I'm trying to set a good example!

Created a new dilemma for myself.