OK, I haven't been able to start a discussion for 3 days now, so that's why the above post is empty.
So my dance school had a dance Sat. night w/ a great live band. I decided to invite people from my single parents meetup group. At first about 8 other people were supposed to come, then everybody started backing out for different reasons. So the day of, only 3 people were coming and by then I felt like why did I bother to do this? I could just hang out w/ my friends. Now I have to host and make sure people I don't know are having a good time.
Well it turned out that only one person came--and it was a guy around my age, cute and he liked to dance. I introduced him to some people but he spent most of the time dancing w/ me. So I lucked out there even if I never see him again, although I'm sure at some point I'll see him at some other meetup event. Funny thing, I was talking to him about how I didn't know that many people in the group and naming some of the people I knew so I mentioned the woman who started the group and he said he used to date her. So I emailed her about something else and she asked me how the dance went and who was there. I said "no one came except A, your ex." She agreed that he likes to dance & then said "I wonder if he broke up w/ his GF." That had me a little bummed out but he surely didn't mention either a GF or ex GF so who knows? Now in order to host an event you have to give out your cell phone to the people who come so when he was leaving, I just said "maybe I'll see you at another event" and he said "I have your number." I don't know what that means, if anything--I wasn't expecting him to ask me out or anything like that, and he did hug me. Oh and then meetup.com always sends everyone an email the next day asking you to rate the event and he said "great" and then you can click this thing that sends the people you met a message that says "nice to meet you" or some such nonsense--I usually just ignore those things. But if my friend (his ex) hadn't mentioned the GF, I might have thought there was some interest there. So I guess now I'll just have to wait and see. It was fun anyway.
Well I got up the nerve to email him last night--it wasn't to ask him out but to send him a funny message about something we were talking about. I was worried about which would be worse--him not responding or replying that he had a GF and giving me the brushoff. He actually did respond and I'm confused cause at the end he said "when is the next dance lesson?" so I don't know if he meant when was I taking a lesson or when was my school having another dance or what, so basically I said I don't know what you are asking, but answered both questions. so that was at 11:00 last night & I haven't heard back yet. But at least he did answer.
That sounds like fun! I'm glad you enjoyed yourself. It kind of sounded to me like he fancied you a good dancer, and wondered when HIS next lesson would be . . .
I also wondered if that was what he meant (thought about it too late of course) but it threw me after his exGF mentioned that he might have a GF & then I didn't want to be presumptuous & humiliate myself. Well I wonder if I'll hear from him again?
I did wonder myself but "when is the next lesson?" doesn't really sound like "when will you give me another dance lesson?" and then if I was wrong I'd be so embarrassed, esp. since I don't know if he has a GF. Well, wonder if I'll hear from him again.
so you think he thinks you are a dance instructor??It sounds like he was making up an excuse to go dancing again and hoping you were there to dance with...
I would pursue this but I know how shy you are and how you dont like to approach men right???? you Know what I am learning about my newfound EFT and energy work is that the more I do it and the more I put out the intention and manifestation out into the Universe that it works and thi ngs come back to me in a positive way..
So far I have gotten a few responses online dating but no one who lives close enough.. I have also met a guy who;s mom is in the rehab where my mom is.. He has a single 56 year old brother in law and so I gave him my email and p hone number and told him if his brother in law is looking to date someone let me know.. He even took a picture of me and gave it to his brother in law.. So we shall see and I took a chance but if I never meet the guy who cares and if I do okay then also..Maybe if not him then they have other family members and friends.. I just took a leap and gave him the info and see what happens..
I also have more friends who are looking for me to go out who I knew from the neighborhood and that hasnt happened before..
So my suggestion would be to pursue this and you will find out soon enough if he has a gfriend or not.. You have nothing to lose...