It's about time

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Registered: 02-29-2004
It's about time
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Sat, 11-18-2006 - 3:18pm

I've decided that I'm going to date again. But I already know who I'll be dating. He's coming back in January. I already know him and feel comfortable around him. And he doesn't bore me. That's a plus! The world will be shocked...well the young world. 20-somethings don't know how to go years being single. Of course I'll get a life back and be happier. But I won't be dating him as a distraction from the mundane. Two weeks ago, I thought of doing that but I knew it would be wrong. And all the things I did to better myself would be crushed under the weight of my stupidity.

I really like him. ^_^

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Sun, 11-19-2006 - 4:05pm

So who is this guy?

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Sun, 11-19-2006 - 4:24pm

So who is this guy?
His name is Rob

I take it you've known him awhile?
Well, DUH!

Where's he coming back from?
Somewhere up northwestern VA. It's a small town. He hates it there.

Does he know of your plan?
Of course. I told him before I made it known to anyone else (online or IRL). Of course the only RL friend who knows about it is my sister.

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Sun, 11-19-2006 - 8:01pm

Sorry, I have to laugh because I have this idea of how the conversation went:


You: So Rob, how was your day?


Him: It was good...decided to move back.


You: Oh, good.

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Sun, 11-19-2006 - 9:12pm
Nope. Wasn't like that. Less funny, but more abrupt. I just decided to say it as soon as he logged on. No warning. I wonder how much he can take me. Gotta worry because I'm the wild and passionate type and he's more subdued. And sex drive is another thing. Mine's a lot higher than his. But I'm still afraid to get in a real relationship, and he's the type who likes to take things slowly. So that's good for me.