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| Sat, 01-27-2007 - 2:15pm |
Does anyone have a suggestion on the best way to say (via text because he keeps texting me to hang out) that I'm fine with hanging out but I don't want the guy to have the wrong impression, that I'm not looking for anything right now?
I don't want to just jump to the conclusion that he wants something although his messages have pretty much led me to believe this, but I'm only interested in being friends with guys right now. I just don't know if there's an easy way to say this without sounding bitchy?

I wouldn't text, because that seems so impersonal, and- not to offend anyone- lazy.
This thread makes me sick. I don't understand. Why are women so hell bent against hooking up with their male friends? Hasn't he been there for you? Hasn't he always been fun?
I was always "just a friend." I wasted YEARS trying to get girls like you to like me.
I'm sorry that my question upset you.
I value my friendships differently than I do my relationships because, like you said, friends are there for you. Guys come and go while friends last forever.
I made the mistake of dating my best guy friend in college and after we broke up (because of his unfaithfulness) he took it out on me and now we no longer speak. Looking back I regret us ever crossing that line because I wish I still had his friendship. I would rather keep my friends than risk a relationship going wrong and losing them from my life completely.