Just Friends or Interested?

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Registered: 02-18-2007
Just Friends or Interested?
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Sat, 09-01-2007 - 8:09pm

Hi all. Not sure where to post this so I posting here and on one other thread.

I have a guy friend that I have been friends with for about 6 months. Recently we have been hanging out more. He tells me to call him if I am in the area and we have dinner. We call each other about 2-3 times a week and have 1 hour plus conversations about everything (his job, my job, people we know, a little flirty sometimes, etc). We text each other about 5 times a week and email almost everyday (say hi, catch up) and using messenger a few times a week. We go places together and just generally have fun.

I thought he was just a friend but all this time with him and talking to him I am starting to become attracted to him. The problem is I dont know if he views me as just a friend or would like more. Does any of this behavior sound like just friends or maybe something more? I am suppossed to hang out with him at his house tomorrow (first time I have been there). I just am curious to see if I should test the waters about something more and how to go about that? I havent dated in a long time as I was married for many years so I am rusty at this.

Any help would be appreciated. Maybe some ways to flirt and see what he is thinking etc, if y'all think this might be more then friends material.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 09-16-2007 - 12:39pm

I'm glad you finally got over the attraction hurdle.

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Registered: 02-18-2007
Mon, 09-17-2007 - 10:58am

You are right I should not have left.

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