Just...annoyed

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Just...annoyed
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Fri, 08-24-2012 - 7:12pm

I'm in a mood right now and must get it all out.

I'm supposed to go out in about an hour.  I was looking forward to it all morning, then I got a message from my girlfriend that her husband was also coming.  She's annoying.  He's an arrogant, crude, self-centered, inconsiderate jerk.  To put it nicely.  I despise when he comes, not just because he's there, but also because he usually comes for dinner, and maybe an hour at the bar, then leaves.  Which means I'm her ride home.  She doesn't ask.  She knows I hate taking people home.  She just assumes.  Then she proceeds to drink far too much and annoy the hell out of me most of the night.  I should be in the shower, but I'm putting it off. 

I'm pretty much annoyed at life right now, so being around two people who annoy me is just going to be lovely tonight.  I'm not feeling nice.  We're also going to the place I usually go for karaoke, but the college kids have returned and they invade the place, demanding that karaoke stop so I can't go there for karaoke anymore (it's on Thursdays).  I'm annoyed at the PR guy who has been hiring stupid annoying bands instead of using our favorite DJs.  He'll book 6 bands in one night, and they'll each play for an hour and none of them are ever really good.  Oh, and to top it off, one of my former students works at the bowling alley next door and he thinks it's okay for him to pop over to the bar side and talk to me after I've had a drink.  He's 16, so he shouldn't be there and I tell him so.  If he does it again, I'm going to complain to the management.  I don't care if he gets fired. 

I'm annoyed at my hair, annoyed at my body, annoyed at our janitor (she carries around a big ol' pin to burst everyone's bubbles with), annoyed at pretty much everyone I work with. I'm annoyed at my phone because it always adds an 's to the end of days of the week.  How can days be possessive, I ask??? 

I'm pretty sure my mother will call me soon, just to add to my annoyed-ness.

I just want to sit at the bar alone all night, nursing a drink.  And if that boy shows up that never called, he just might get an earful.  I'm almost hoping he does.  I need to let loose on someone.  It'll probably make him fall in love with me, my luck.  

I must shower now.  After which, I'm going to become extremely annoyed at my closet.

 

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: shywon
Fri, 08-24-2012 - 11:14pm

You're really freakin' annoyed!

I do hope your night went better than anticipated.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Fri, 08-24-2012 - 11:22pm
Well, I've had a couple of drinks at this point, and there's a cute guy making eyes at me across the bar, so it might be okay. Plus, I found out karaoke has been moved back to its earlier time, so I can leave before the stupid college kids show up. Oh, and one of the stupid college kids got arrested last night got arrested for underage drinking...bwahahaha!
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Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: cfk_3
Sat, 08-25-2012 - 9:44am

I'm sorry, I had to chuckle through this post.  I know you were annoyed but it was also quite entertaining.  By the time you posted again, it seemed you were in a different head space - so I'm assuming your night didn't turn out as badly as you'd anticipated.  I hope that was the case, anyway!

 

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Sat, 08-25-2012 - 10:21am

The cute guy left, so no chance to even talk to him.  My girlfriend's husband left, as anticipated, and she mentioned a few times that she "didn't have a car" there.  I left early because I am not a fan of the thug music they were there to see (they went to high school with the "performer").  She was really drunk, and I didn't even ask if she had a way home.  There was another friend there so I assumed she'd take her home.  As I walked out and across the parking lot, some random guy hollered at me, "Hey! Are you married?  You're beautiful!  YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!"  I just looked back, said thanks, and kept on walking.  I'm sure he was really after my heart and not my...ahem. 

In a moment of weakness, I also decided to text the boy and tell him I was disappointed that I hadn't heard from him and that I thought he was one of the good guys.  I know it wasn't the "strong" thing to do, but I'm just really sick of just letting these guys do what they do without ever telling them how they've hurt me.  I just let them do it.  He didn't respond, which is what I expected.  He honestly really did seem interested and like one of the good ones.  He was upset when I left and wanted to see me again.  But, he did tell me he's been single for six years, so maybe that's been by choice.

I am happy that this morning, they've finally decided to mow my yard.  I've been watering most of the summer to keep the driveway from dropping and foundation from cracking, and they haven't moved since early June I think.  My yard was like a jungle.  There were a few other yards in the neighborhood that needed mowing, so I'm not sure why they waited so long.  I've been paying HOA dues all summer and the only summer thing they could go toward is mowing, so I'm not sure where that money has gone. 

I have much to do today, and at 9:15 I'm struggling to force myself to get in the shower.  I need to clean, grocery shop for my Bunko day next week (cooking for 16 people in the middle of the week..FUN), find supplies for my treasure box at school, and get a few other things done around the house. 

I'm still annoyed, but at least I don't have to deal with too many people today!  So glad I could entertain you, cfk!

 

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Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: cfk_3
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 11:04am

Don't feel bad.  I broke down and sent a text to red fingernail polish guy and he never replied to it.  It was only a movie suggestion as we were both pretty big film buffs . . . it bit to be completely ignored(after feeling like we'd had some sort of connection).