Just...awesome

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Just...awesome
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Thu, 06-05-2014 - 3:10pm

I'm going to a friend's birthday celebration Saturday night. My most recent ex (from January) is on the "going" list. I'm not looking forward to seeing him, but by golly he's not going to ruin my fun! 

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: shywon
Thu, 06-05-2014 - 4:09pm

Good luck.  I was thinking about going to a singles dance tomorrow night but my DD is coming home for the weekend.  So I see that this guy that I had a couple of dates with and then said that he wasn't interested me and had another GF is going to be there. :(  I haven't seen him in a year.  I didn't want to run into him but in some strange way I also wanted to see him and show him that he meant nothing to me too.  lol  

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Thu, 06-05-2014 - 5:13pm
Is she single? Could you take her with you? I've lost a few more pounds since he last saw me (although after the past two weeks, I feel like a cow). My goal is to look hot. I broke up with him, but he essentially threw the relationship (or potential for one) away. I'm sure he'll probably try to talk to me. Tell me he misses me. If I'm in the right kinda mood, I'll make sure he knows I don't miss him!
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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: shywon
Sun, 06-08-2014 - 1:24pm
So I saw him walk in the door and then didn't see him again. I imagine he stayed outside on the patio all night. In the meantime, I was asked out twice. The first guy is far too old for me. He looks like Billy Idol and I'm guessing he's close to 60. He's always been nice to me and I suspected he was interested. He asked me out to dinner and I just bluntly told him I wasn't interested. He took it well and asked if we could still be friendly. I said of course. The second guy is my guy friend's best friend. He flirts with me pretty much every time I'm around him. I don't flirt back. I have heard too many stories about him. He's not really a "bad boy" but he's not unfamiliar with metal bracelets (for dwi, from what I understand) either. I'm pretty sure he was feeding me a whole bunch of lines last night, but I agreed to go out with him when he asked. I figure he is probably only interested because I'm a challenge. If I act interested, he'll probably lose interest. There's someone else I'm interested in anyway. I need a second distraction to keep me from focusing too much on the other guy (who is far better for me!).
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Registered: 06-06-2006
In reply to: shywon
Tue, 06-10-2014 - 10:05am

Hey Shywon, whats wrong with Billy Idol looks Smile? I personally think he is very attractive - in a rocking way! And if that man you are talking about is in the similarly incredible shape for his age as Billy Idol, then i think it was a mistake to not go out to dinner with him Wink!  After all, whats the harm - age or not - what do you have to loose?? A something is better than a nothing??

Rock on people and listen to Billy Idol Cool (who did couple of unforgettable (punk?) rock classics in the 80-s!)