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| Tue, 04-25-2006 - 5:18am |
I have always kept in shape and been somewhat athletic and had an average build. I work out to try to get women to like me and I work out a lot but I am not what I want to be.
My friend, who since high school has always been a Vin Disel type of guy with huge muscles, he has never had a problem getting women's attention. When we played football together in high school he got introduced to steriods. He has taken them ever since and I only recently found out about this but I must say I have always envied him and how women adore him.
I recently asked him casually how he gets the stuff and he woudlnt tell me. I told him I was interested in trying it to see how if they helped and he said if I was sure I wanted to try it he would get me something and I could pay him.
I am seriously considering this...I think it could help me with my self esteem problems. If I did this and became more attractive I wouldnt have problems with my confidence anymore so I think it might be a good idea.

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Gotta say that if my muscled boyfriend was doing juice to get them, I'd be mighty disappointed.
There are so many reasons not to take steroids and its mostly health reasons. They mess with your heart, your kidneys, your genitals, your testosterone levels and are pretty much a bad idea all around.
Maybe you just dont have the build or the body type to have bigger muscles. Some guys just dont. Just like some women dont have the build or body type to be a size 2. And thats ok. But you gotta be the one to accept it.
OMG!!!! Man oh man, this is whacked!!! And I would say the same thing to a woman who came on here asking if she should take speed to lose weight or get her breasts enlarged or whatever.
After reading this thread, I would say that spending your money on counseling would be a much smarter choice.
Sheri
>>I am seriously considering this...I think it could help me with my self esteem problems. If I did this and became more attractive I wouldnt have problems with my confidence anymore so I think it might be a good idea.<<
This is exactly what a lot of people say who get plastic surgery. Then, they get more and more plastic surgery, striving for that ideal that doesn't exist. You've seen Morgan Fairchild, right? This is a bad idea.
Steroids can also be really dangerous.
Trust me, confidence comes from within. Stop trying to work on your muscles, and work on your heart and soul to learn to accept yourself the way you are.
I recommend seeing a counselor as well -- a third party professional can really help you get to the heart of these matters.
Hang in there and good luck.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I decided to ask my friend if he could get me some. He said he would see what he could do and then I figured I would just give it a try. I wont be a big addict or a Jose Canseco I would just do a little bit.
I decided to follow up on this girl that called me so that is why I decided to try the 'riods.
K can I just share a quick story. I took a steroid-like drug for my knee this winter and it was the most awful two weeks of my life. And this was something for medicinal purposes. I was paranoid, not sleeping, sweaty, anxious, diahhrea, belching, acne breakouts, a basketcase, angry, moody....and thats something they market for medicine. FOR MEDICINE and these were the effects I had.
What you're going to shoot into your veins is far worse than what I was on.
K...addicts dont start out as addicts. They start out as a "little bit" and spiral downward from there.
So you get some muscle and its all good...soon as you stop taking the roids because you're only doing a little bit, you'll lose it. And then you'll start again, but only take a little bit...and then lose it again. And onward Christian soldiers and before you know it, you're addicted and juiced.
Addicts use substances because it replaces something they are missing. For every one of them it is different but in your case, you'll be shooting up juice to "get muscles and girls" when its more likely you're trying to build up confidence and self-esteem. And you wont' get that from drugs.
Good luck, but I can not stress enough how BAD this is and how it really wont get what you want or need.
http://www.nida.nih.gov/Infofacts/Steroids.html
well...
my friend came over today with the stuff I asked him for. He was going to show me how to use it and I said no. I figured it was best to avoid this whole steriod thing before it became a real problem. I want to be big but I want to earn it, doubt I will but I will try.
I figured that if something gets me stressed its not worth the headache and best to drop it. So to hell with these drugs.
Good for you! Oh Im so glad you decided against it.
You know...I could ask my boyfriend about his work out plan and what he does. I know he really concentrates on his upper body and rotates what area he works on instead of doing it all at once. If improving your physique is really important to you, maybe what you're doing isnt working.
Its a thought.
But whats more important is that you decided NOT to do drugs. Very good.
Ruby
did not read all the replies so maybe someone already suggested this but why dont you try Protein supplement? They dont have side effects and you wont become huge just toned with more muscles.
I really recommend it. I m a woman and I took protein bars after gym for a while (Im veggetarian and dont get enough protein) so it had an awesome effect on my body.
Edited 4/27/2006 1:32 am ET by antisexy
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