Ladies, I need to freak out for a moment
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Ladies, I need to freak out for a moment
| Fri, 12-01-2006 - 10:15am |
The other night, I had a realization:
| Fri, 12-01-2006 - 10:15am |
The other night, I had a realization:
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Awww, shy's in love ; ) Just kidding. That's great! This is when relationships starting getting comfortable, huh? It's nice to get the nervous conversation, have to look absolutely perfect for dates, does he really like me or not phase behind ya. Good luck with the vulnerability. If you ask me, it's a tricky thing.
"He's out hunting today. I sure hope he doesn't freeze to death or shoot himself."
--Let's hope Cheney isn't in the vicinity.
" know- not big things, but the fact that this is turning into a real relationship is kind of freaking me out because I'm really just waiting for the other shoe to drop. When's he going to decide that he doesn't care anymore? Or when is he going to do something that I just can't live with? It's really hard for me to make myself vulnerable again. I know it's hard for him too. Maybe that's what is making this work."
I think it's totally normal to freak out a bit at this stage. You have more at stake when you actually start to care and, if you have been hurt in the past (and we all have, haven't we?), that can make it even worse.
The best thing you can do, as hard as it might be, is to just enjoy it. When you start to have those freak-out and when-will-the-shoe-drop thoughts, step back. Center yourself and say, "the shoe hasn't dropped yet and I'm just going to enjoy this" - then give him a big hug. :) Eventually, you will make it through this scary phase -- and the ones after that are SO MUCH easier.
Good luck, and I am really happy to hear that you truly like this guy. :) That's so great.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
I'm having a moment.
He went hunting with just him and his dog.
I'm glad you understand.
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