Letting her know & what would she think
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|Sun, 08-31-2003 - 1:59am|
We both have individually travelled extensively and are considering taking a long weekend trip together. I would like to let her know that I like her, but would prefer to do so face-face. Not sure what's she feeling or thinking ... whether I'm just a friend, someone to travel with, or if there's any potential. Hard to read as she's personable and has travelled to meet with other male friends.
How should I approach this? Should I let her know before, during, or after the trip? Should I ask her to go on this trip as a "date" or leave it more open-ended? Should I consider some romantic touches? At the same time, I don't want to create an awkward situation. It would be easy to say go with what feels natural, but I'm not sure any of this feels natural to me. I think that we will still be good friends and keep in contact regardless, but recognizing a change would have occurred. And even if she is interested, trying to build a closer relationship long-distance could pose difficult issues as we have strong ties to where we each currently reside.
Any thoughts, advice, pitfalls to avoid, or suggestions?