Lies!

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Registered: 08-14-2007
Lies!
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Sun, 04-01-2012 - 4:30am

Been a while since i've posted on here. Hi everyone! So I met a guy online who i've been messaging back and forth with but haven't met. He just told me he was lying about something but we should meet and see if we click before he tells me. Of course I badgered him until he told me and it turns out hes 42 instead of 32! It started out because he wouldn't send me more pics which made me suspicious. Also, i'm 30 years old. When I told him it wasn't ok that he lied to me and it wouldn't work he called me a judgemental hypocrite and then started blasting me with angry messages! What is with men?! He says everyone lies and of course I lie as well so not accepting him for his true age makes me a hypocrite. Ladies, have you experienced this ridiculousness?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 12:40pm

oh; my yes and that is really immoral.. Lying on a resume and all. I think they call that a crime.. Help me out Music.

You know

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Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 1:13pm
I worked for a large company that provided background checks for perspective employers. We'd go over applications with a fine tooth comb. We searched criminal records, education, motor vehicle, financial and previous employment. She had applied for a sales position at a local television affiliate. I couldn't believe that they didn't do background checks!?

I never saw her the same way after that...I mean, if you'll lie about that, you'll lie about most anything.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 6:10pm

One of the problems with OLD is the lying but also the cut off's.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 7:47pm

This morning I found out that a guy I went out with 3 - 4 times lied about his age on his profile. His profile says he is 41 and I am 36.

There was something about him that was

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 10:09pm

I think someone really has no right to get mad when they caused the problem--he should have known his lying about his age would turn off a lot of women.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: citygal25
Sun, 04-01-2012 - 10:22pm
I'm curious about what his age range was that he put on his profile. If he were willing to date women his own age, I bet he would have put his real age. I'm guessing his age range is somewhere in the neighborhood of 22-32, which is maybe where he learned that word "hypocrite" for the first time...and never bothered to look up what it meant before he used it!
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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: citygal25
Thu, 04-05-2012 - 8:50pm

Lots of people lie in their profiles.

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