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|Sun, 01-12-2014 - 5:04pm|
I haven't posted much lately, mostly because I can't seem to stay signed in. It annoys me to have to try twice, then sometimes that doesn't even work. I've been reading everything, though. Trying to keep up on everyone else's lives. I figured I'd give an update on mine. I pretty much ended it with the guy I was dating. Things were good for about the first six weeks. He was attentive, caring, concerned- all the things he needed to be. Then he started spending time with his friends instead of with me. I'm fine with friend time, but he wasn't making me a priority and that was a problem. I talked to him about it and gave him some time to see if things changed. They did not. So I told him that I didn't have time to wait on him and my clock was ticking. (Not exactly like that, but you get the point.) it boiled down to him not wanting to commit yet, and I'm not willing to wait and see if he ever will. He wouldn't even meet my friends! After three months, I don't think that's too much to ask. I'm not upset. He was kind of emotionally draining. He still texts me once in awhile, but I'm not going to see him anymore. There wasn't an official "break up" moment, which seems odd. But I'm definitely not dating him anymore. There's another guy who just wants a casual (sexual) thing. I may have posted about him before. We had a brief fling back in May. Every once in awhile, he'll ask to see me. I haven't told him yes. Haven't ruled it out either. We hung out last night. We were both in the same karaoke contest (neither of us won...boo) then we went to IHOP- his friends and one of mine. I had a good time. I honestly probably know more about him than I do about the guy I was actually dating. His friend asked for my friend's number, too. He wanted to come over, but I told him it was too soon. He may not want a relationship, but he's always respectful and he's far more mature than the other guy, that's for sure. So that's what's going on with me. I'm actually kind of happy/relieved to be officially "single" because I missed flirting!!