Link to articles, very usefull!
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| Sun, 12-10-2006 - 3:07am |
Hi Guys,
Tonight when I got home from doing some xmas shopping I started to do research to look for some relationship articles. This is what I like to do when I start to feel myself miss my ex or are about to cry. I find that reading articles on how to deal with breakups or just ones related to personal growth really help. I came accross this one website that talks about rather than focusing and dwelling on the negative, try to appreciate the things you have in your life. This article really openened my eyes, and made me realize that during my relationship with my ex due to my high expectations I was focusing to much on the things he did not do now, compared to what he use to do when we went out years ago. Compared to the days when I would not think about things I was totally happy with him and myself. But then I would start thinking of those things and become disappointed. So it helped me to realize that I need to learn to appreciate what I have, rather than focus on what I do not have in my life. So I thought I would pass the link to this article on to you. To get to this part of the website click on the article link on the side colum, then go to the links that are underneith the heading personal growth. I hope that these articles help you all to appreciate your life, no matter if you have a guy or not. Please let me know if these articles helped you out or not. The articles really do not say anything that we all did not know to begin with. They are just a helpful reminder of what people in todays society tend to lack, as we are so focused on getting, wanting and what we do not have that it just leaves us unsatisified. This actually reminds me of this course I took last summer called western scholarship it dealt with philosophers, psychologists and myths they had about happiness it dated back all the way to the acient greeks around 400 BC etc.... it was such an awesome course. It was an upper level psychology course that I took.
Here is the link,
http://www.dr.noellenelson.com/Personal_Growth_and_Relationships.cfm
| Sun, 12-10-2006 - 3:32am |
