A little of this and a little of that...

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Registered: 05-10-2012
A little of this and a little of that...
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Tue, 11-20-2012 - 4:41pm

So the conversion didn't go smoothly for me AT ALL!   Then came Sandy.   I am in Central PA (Harrisburg area) and we dodged a bullet this time.  Lost power for a day, which is easily dealt with...BUT my son turned off everything but the computer when he locked up and left.   When the power came back on, so long hard drive.  :sigh:   

As you can see, the computer Dr. fixed us up and I am ~connected~ again!!!

And for the THAT portion... As of Wednesday, I will be a virgin again.  (I am totally discounting the horrific sex I had with the guy who brought me here.)  I can NOT believe it's been an entire year of no sex.  I have never, since I engaged in sex, gone an ENTIRE 365 days without sex with another person.  And the sex with me and BOB just doesn't cut it.

I just don't wanna do FWB or flings right now.   I am totally open and willing for something real.  If this doesn't change by the new year, screw it....I'm back to a decent ONS!

Good to be back , hope to hear from some who seem to be missing!!!

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Mon, 11-26-2012 - 5:32pm

I am pretty sure that it is even easier than riding a bike...at least I hope so.

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Mon, 11-26-2012 - 5:25pm

I am surprised, really!   I have never gone home with someone I didn't sort of know.   Usually guys I had talked to on mulitple occasions.   A number of times I found out later that there was a gf or wife but that was few and far between. When I know someone, I feel safer.   When I find out they cheated with me, yeah...screw the serial killer...I don't like being the whore he slept with.   And I am talking about a very few in a 20yr time span.   I've had my last lover on the line for a couple of weeks but I just feel that diving into that pool would be going backwards.  And I am determined to go forward....

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Tue, 11-20-2012 - 11:16pm

good to see you heather.. I couldnt figure out what ons was till music said it..

Sex .. what is that?? I forgot but I hope its like riding a bicycle..

 

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 11-20-2012 - 8:37pm

Hi Heather--Glad you survived the hurricane.  I hate to tell you how long it's been for me w/o sex--and definitely not by choice--no offers.  If I could have a ONS or FWB I'd take that opportunity, however it would have to be with someone I know & trust.  I could just never pick up someone from a bar--I'd be afraid he'd turn out to be a murderer and then after I was dead, people would be saying "but she's a lawyer--how could she be so dumb to go home with a man she didn't know?"  So I guess I'll still have to wait.