LONELY

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Registered: 05-25-2008
LONELY
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 11:33am
THE LAST TIME I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY SECOND CHILD IN 2004 AND IT ONLY LASTED 6 MONTHS. I HAD GUYS HOLLA AT ME WHEN THEY SAW MY BODY, NOT FOR ME ASKED ME OUT MANY TIMES. I TURNED THEM DOWN BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACT A REAL MAN WITH GOOD COMMON SENSE IN A CONVERSATION. SOME DAYS, I WOULD GO OUT ON A DATE AND IT TURNED OUT HE ONLY WANTED SEX FROM ME, THAT HURT. NOW, I AM HANGING WITH MY GUY FRIEND AND I AM SO COMFORTABLE BEING WITH HIM BUT HE ONLY WANT FRIENDSHIP EVEN THOUGH WE SLEPT TOGETHER, HE DOESN'T' TRUST ME PERSONALLY BECAUSE OF MY PAST AND LACK OF CONFIDENCE. I WOULD COMPLIMENT MYSELF FOR TOLD HIM WHO I AM REALLY AND WHAT HAPPENED IN MY PAST SO HE WOULDN'T HAVE TO HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE. I ASK GOD ALL THE TIMES, WOULD HE BLESS ME WITH A GOOD MAN THAT PROVIDES FOR ME AND MY GIRLS WHO ARE 3 AND 6 YEARS OLD? I WANT SOME LOVE IN MY LIFE BESIDE GOD, MY GIRLS, FAMILY, AND FRIENDS.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: crzypooh39
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 9:00pm

Welcome to the board, pooh.

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Registered: 12-19-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Wed, 05-28-2008 - 2:52pm

 Z

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Registered: 05-25-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Thu, 05-29-2008 - 8:41pm
I got what you mean but what are you trying to say? That I should go out there and take all the chances to explore men to know who is the right one for me? Instead thinking the same negative thing about every men and one man out of all the men might be the right one??
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Registered: 12-19-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Fri, 05-30-2008 - 4:58pm

 Z

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Registered: 10-14-2001
In reply to: crzypooh39
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 5:32pm

Are you looking for a "provider" or a real friendship relationship?


I don't know your situation but if I had two children from a different man, I would NOT expect my next lover to provide for them.

Soliel
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Registered: 05-30-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 8:24pm
YOYOYO z money... sorry, I have certainly been a "giver".
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Registered: 12-19-2007
In reply to: crzypooh39
Sat, 05-31-2008 - 11:02pm

 Z

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Registered: 05-25-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:29pm
I am good with my life, going to school to get my master in healthcare administration, have a good job to take care of myself and my lil girls; my long goals are owning a three bedrooms and 2 half bathrooms house, clean up my financial situtations, and living right until GOD say it's time for me to leave but before I do that, i want my girls to have a better education, strong common sense when it comes to boys when they get older, making right choices than I did. I love myself, GOD, and my girls; etc. I am not sitting around and wait for a man come to me because I am not that old and shouting out in the rain to enjoy what I can do right now.
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Registered: 05-25-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:32pm
Without my kids, I don't know because I always have them but if I didn't have them, I would do my thang, riding out, traveling, chillin', etc.
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Registered: 05-25-2008
In reply to: crzypooh39
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:39pm

Hey! I am not looking for my next man to take care of my girls, I am already doing that as a mother and a father to them since they was born and taking oare of myself, too. Now, as you said if he wants to offer, I will be lucky. I always have a dream to see if there gonna be a true love for me in a love relationship.

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