lost my best friend to marriage?
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lost my best friend to marriage?
| Fri, 12-02-2005 - 12:15pm |
so one of my close friends (best friends in college) got married in september. i have not heard from her since. she doesn't return my calls and she hasn't returned my emails. She mentioned that she take me out to dinner shortly after she came back from the honeymoon as a thank you to how supportive i was of her but she didn't follow through with it. before she got married, she was a flaky friend to begin with but i thought it would improve over time. what should i do?
she knows that she isn't a good friend, she's told me how bad she's felt. so should i confront her about it? i've never really given it (my thoughts) to her in the past, i've just said it was ok but now i am fed up with it! anyone has experience with this? advice please!

BTDT
Sadly, I too, lost one of my best friends when she got married. Her husband's friends were all married, so she dropped all her single friends and his friends' wives became her new friends.
There's nothing you can do about it - relationships evolve, and some times just fade away.
I worry about the same thing with my best friend.