Love ?

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Love ?
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Tue, 03-06-2012 - 1:05pm

Disclaimer: If you are shocked by affairs, better not read this.

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Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: sireanita
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 8:51pm

I'm glad you're taking his recent absence so well.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: sireanita
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:12pm

Maybe because you knew going into this situation that at some point it would end made it easier to accept the ending.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: sireanita
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:23pm
I agree with Music. Since you knew it was going to end, it was easier to take. Like a vacation ending. You miss it, but you know you've got to get back to reality eventually.

I wasn't devastated over my last breakup for the same reason. I knew he wasn't it for me, but I was a little sad and missed him sometimes.
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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: sireanita
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:30pm

I don't believe the grief of something ending is a testament to how much you loved or didn't love that person.