Is this lying? Really?

Wow...you lead quite a life! I'm not being judgemental, just giving you kudos for getting out there and trying different things on for size. No pun intended. :) you're braver than I, that's for certain!

I am just thinking Long Distance Man could be the right guy for now? I mean you say you are very busy and dont need a full time relationship right? I think that is what you say??

When he is gone you can date others but just date and no hanky panky (lol) and then look around for a guy who suits you 100% but no hanky panky until both of you want the same thing...and need the same thing.

Life has a funny way of giving us what we need when we need it.. Maybe Mr. Long Distance is the one for now ..

Just some thoughts but what the hell do I know?? (lol)

I think it's a great idea to date multiple people but all that changes when sex enters. I've dated a lot but had very few sexual relationships. If it gets to that stage - not that often for me - I make a point of saying " if you are sleeping with me, that means you aren't with any one else." in my first sexual relationship after divorce , I made the mistake of assuming exclusivity and was heartbroken when I found that he was still seeing other women. I've found though that multi-dating (without sex) is not easy. Most singles of my age who I know date one person at a time. I have tried dating lite - i.e. going out with multiple guys but it doesn't seem to work. The men seem to assume I'm not seeing anyone else and it gets awkward.