Make it easy on yourself

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Make it easy on yourself
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Thu, 12-29-2011 - 12:27am

Today I've had this thought rolling around in my head: that I'm making this whole dating thing hard on myself.

For the last two days, a long ago ex-boyfriend has been circling.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 7:52am

I am finding that most of the population fits into your categories be it men or women.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 10:31am

I think those are very good guidelines that we should all remember.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 11:00am

I agree with all of those, although I think communication can be worked on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 11:41am

I agree wholeheartedly with your addition to the list, Shy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 12:53pm

Yes and that is why I am turning gay because as women we of course understand each other way more than a man would.. when I did community theater of course it was filled with gay actors and they were the nicest, cutest, most understanding men around.

They would do our hair and bring the women food and talk to us like our gfriends. No macho men there.

So here is what we should do... We should find a very effeminate man who is a mama's boy who works as a nurse and knows how to nurture people but he is a man all the way..

PS.. I was thinking that all men really want are food and sex so if we find a guy lets just feed him and f--- him and all will be well.

Just my two cents!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 2:42pm

I have to laugh cause there is a guy in my dance class who is a nurse--his 1st career was in real estate--and he's definitely not feminine at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 5:02pm

There's a je ne sais quoi element besides the ol' F&F 'em adage.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 6:31pm

Ha ha

I wonder sometimes if we can have it all. I mean when we get those hot smokin bad sizzle on fire men they usually turn out to be the ones who dont care for us.

Then when we meet the oh; just so nice okay boring type who loves us and worships us we get bored and look for the hot and sizzle type.

Now lets see.. I have the solution..

Have sex with

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 10:15pm

Ain't that the truth?!?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 10:25pm

I have read and studied that from the beginning of time men of course are hunters and they of course hunt women.. When they get their prey they spread their seed.. After that they are on the hunt again.. Thus making monogomy very difficult for men. This is just plain old biology and anthropology and I wonder if the mormons have it right.. Multiple wives except there are no mulitple men.

I watch that show sister wives and I kind of like the idea of having more women around. Not sure about the one man but If I could do it I might really think about having multiple people around . It looks like fun.

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