Married Men!!

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Registered: 02-27-2002
Married Men!!
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Wed, 02-29-2012 - 9:12am

Hi,

I haven't posted in a long while so I wanted to say Happy New Year to all my fellow posters.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 10:07am

Sure, I had a few similar experiences. I posted about them last

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 11:09am

I really haven't been hit on by a married man but my best friend seems to get them all the time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 12:03pm

Sirenita.. You dont have to post your story here because I have read all about it on the affairs board.

I feel so bad for your son and that is it...

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 12:16pm

Possibly it is recapturing the passion and excitement that a NRE brings.

chaika

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 12:58pm
freeatlast2008 wrote:

Sirenita.. You dont have to post your story here because I have read all about it on the affairs board.

I feel so bad for your son and that is it...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 1:19pm
Yes. I was working at a hospital in mid 90's and became involved with a married man. It never went past his walking me to my car, and kissing me goodnight, thankfully. Come to think of it, my manager was also married and made moves on me constantly. I remember one night I was alone in my part of the hospital, and he cornered me in between two aisles of files. I think he sensed that I was a bit of an adrenaline junkie, mixed with the fact that he knew I was already playing with fire, or another married man. I'm sure he was shocked when I passed on the opportunity. Looking back, and knowing now how people talk, I can't imagine what the other women in that department probably thought of me. I can't even think about it. If someone did that to me, I'd be devastated(were I the wife). Most of the women in my department were married and the funny thing is, I never once stopped to think about the fact that this man had worked there forever, and his co-workers (and mine) probably knew his wife personally. It just makes me sick to my stomach. The worst part is, my own parent was is administration at the same hospital...and it was a Catholic hospital. Nuns were everywhere, LOL. I've seen articles that explain why women, and even men, have a heightened bonding experience through affairs because of the element of danger involved. It totally makes sense to me. The guy I was involved with, wasn't even remotely attractive and he was a habitual smoker so he always smelled like nicotine. His personality wasn't even all that...so it had to be the adrenaline rush that I got when interacting with him. Well, coupled with the fact that he was giving me attention, and making me feel wanted...I'd tell the story about the second married guy I was involved with but, that was a clear case of your typical philanderer. He simply didn't care about anyone but himself. It's funny though, because you always hear stories about how the guy will say: "We haven't had sex in five years..." or "We're legally separated...". Neither of these guys tried to pull that card with me. The first guy was actually in the process of adopting a child with his wife. I remember she visited him at work one evening and I couldn't believe how stunningly attractive she was...and had a great personality. I think that's what made me back off from him. I met her, saw that they had a normal marriage, she was almost perfect, in my eyes, and yet here he is, being disloyal. I never saw him the same again.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 1:21pm
Free, I'm confused. I might be getting you confused with someone else, but I thought you admitted here once that you too had an affair with a married man at one time?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 3:06pm

First off I am not judging anyone but I see it as if you think your poor son now looked up to

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 5:53pm

I didn't have an affair, my dear.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: mhishon
Wed, 02-29-2012 - 5:57pm

Free affairs do not always end badly.

chaika

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