Me Ego is Smashed

Wow, music took the words right out of my fingertips. I think that comparing yourself to other people is a big no-no. I don't do Facebook for that very reason. All you are going to see - or let's say most - most of what you see on Facebook is going to be people at their best. I guess that's great if you are perfectly happy in your own life but if you aren't, it's almost an alienating feeling to see everyone's lives tied up so perfectly in a big, red bow.

Another thing music suggested, that resonated with me was, everybody has their strengths and weaknesses. I sense that with you, people get what they see. There's no guessing involved. I love that! It's so refreshing. You aren't going to turn around and pull this other personality out of the closet when someone's back is turned.

I loved what you posted a while back, the jist of which was to enjoy the little things in life. It was the day you met some women while running errands on foot around town. Please read this quote: "He smiled understandingly–much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, that you may come across four or five times in life. It faced–or seemed to face–the whole external world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just so far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey." -F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby

-- I'd venture to say, some would trade in a gazillion dates for a tiny little bit of your charm and authenticity...I know this doesn't help Mr. Right to magically appear from the sky - and I know you're lonely - but it could always be worse! You could be lonely and be a miserable person and I don't think you are...