Meeting place?

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Meeting place?
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Wed, 08-15-2012 - 10:32am

A guy I met online wants to meet for coffee for the first time.

I am wondering if I am wrong to feel this way.

I suggested a place convenient to  me but he wants me to go up further north which is convenient to him.

I had a past experience where I had to travel during rush hour in a jammed subway to meet a guy for coffee close to where he lives.  After that I felt stupid for putting in all the effort. I wasn't interested in him at all.

I feel like, as a guy shouldn't he put in more effort? I get the feeling that he is lazy and I am not sure if I want a lazy bf.

A guy friend told me that I shouldn't  travel up to meet a guy. Let him come to me.

Would you agree to meet at the place he suggested if you were me?

 

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Thu, 08-16-2012 - 8:32am
Your post echoed my thoughts but you expressed it better than I do.
I think this all moot now.
Earlier I cannot view his profile since I am not a paying member and the pic I saw was really small. I asked him to email me some pics and he did. He is from a culture that I absolutely have no interest plus he is not my type. His attitude kinda irks me.

So if he wants to meet me, he has to come to my area on a weekend. Traffic is light on a weekend so he got no excuse. Plus the place I suggested has free parking. If he does not want to come, then so be it.
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Registered: 06-03-2009
Thu, 08-16-2012 - 9:11pm
Well since you aren't too interested in this guy, hopefully you're chatting with others who may be more appealing.
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