To the men on this board.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2007
To the men on this board.....
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Wed, 09-05-2007 - 11:15pm
I've noticed there are quite a few men on this board. I was thinking that we women should take advantage of that and get a few tips from you guys! I know you respond to many of our subjects, but I was wondering what random advice you could give us women about men??? What are some of your peeves about women you date, how often a woman should make the call, typical dating tips for women, things maybe we overlook. It would be a breath of fresh air if you could advise! What are your deal breakers and such. I'm looking forward to your answers!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2007
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:39pm
I am sorry as well and i wish you the best. Also, thank you for the tips! The topic was swayed from the original. I appreciate it!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2007
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 12:15pm

>>Approach men in bars that hang in the corner or away from the action, they're probably the good ones, just a little shy and intimidated by their competition. I would know, most of the time I'm that way. Once I open up, I'm a great talker and listener.

Guys, this applies to women as well. When I was out playing pool, I would always hang out on the side lines until I was up, play, and return to the shadows. One on one, I'm fine, but bigger groups, forget it.
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Isn’t it funny how people are drawn to the “brightest light in a room”. But when you just stop for a moment and consider what personality traits typically are attached to the “life of the party” it is hardly a surprise how often they are a disappointment.

Sometimes the very thing that puts a person in the shadows is the lack of a giant ego and the lack of insecurities that need reassurance and a constant audience applauding how great you are. Just because someone is not dancing on tables does not mean they are shy. (-:

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
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Registered: 03-16-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 9:58pm

I was in the break room at my job and this girl was telling me about her BF. She needs a ride everyday and he brought her that day. She was going to show him around a little bit but on the way there he said he needed a break in the relationship to handle "personal" issues. So I told her, he's full of crap, dump him. If he can't work his problems out with you in his life,

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