Men/Women: The Invite.
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Men/Women: The Invite.
| Fri, 06-30-2006 - 9:08am |
Throughout my years of dating, rarely do I meet a man that takes the initiative to invite me to events (or ANYthing for that matter). I typically do the inviting. They graciously accept most times but I still am the one primarily taking the intiative to get us together. So this question is for the men. Why is this?
For the ladies, how do you feel about this, and is it an issue if you are the primary initiator, even if he accepts most times and you have a great time?

When I initiate anything, I usually end up still by myself.
I have found you need to lure them in and then let them ask you out. Make them think it was their idea, even though you paved the way.