middleaged women and OLD

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Registered: 01-25-2010
middleaged women and OLD
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Sat, 10-22-2011 - 2:40pm

chaika

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 3:34pm

Thank you so much xxxs for posting this article.. I will now jump off of a bridge with my 57 year old female self.

No; alot of this is most likely true.. except alteast I have had some dates from OLD.. and I do get contacted here and there. So not a total loss.

I am very tired of the down side of dating for older people..

Does anyone on here have any solutions to this dilemma besides applying for AARP dating sites????

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 4:49pm
Free, my advice would be to stop focusing so much on your age. I think you include it in just about every post, which tells me you are focusing on it a lot.
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Registered: 05-14-1999
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 5:26pm
Have you ever considered an old school match maker? Are there any male dominated hobbies you would consider trying out, like say, fishing or hunting, archery ... model planes, coin collecting, antiquing?
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 10-22-2011 - 8:12pm

It's hard not to focus on your age when men your own age don't want to meet you because they want women 10-20 yrs younger (as stated in this article and from looking at OLD sites).

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Registered: 04-15-2009
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 12:18am

I mean no disrespect to the women who all older than me

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 2:25am

I will answer your questions from a male standpoint.:

"Why are these men so foolish and disrespectful towards the lovely women in their age bracket??"

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chaika

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 6:54am

"Why are these men so foolish and disrespectful towards the lovely women in their age bracket??"

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 9:57am

I think this is funny because it's the truth--most women under 40 aren't looking for a guy old enough to be their dad unless the guy is really rich & they are looking for a "sugar daddy"--yet men can't comprehend this.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 10:04am

You're really contradicting yourself here, xxxs:

On the one hand you imply that older women don't keep up their looks so the guys are looking for younger women cause they want fun--but then you say that older women

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 10-23-2011 - 10:19am

I agree, Florida.

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