Multiple Dating

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Registered: 04-11-2007
Multiple Dating
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Tue, 07-31-2007 - 12:30pm
Hey all, I need help!
I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago, and since then I have been dating like crazy. Sometimes dating 3 or 4 guys at once. There has been one guy that's been more consistent though. In the 2 mos i have been single i have has sex with three ppl and it doesn't really happen all that often. I am also moving to England in 2 months, so I don't think i should be exclusive with just one guy bc im leaving and why start something that is going to end anywayz. BUT I have major doubts about the way I am going and i feel guilty even though i am honest with these guys that it is not exclusive. Am I being careless or should I just have fun with everything???
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 07-31-2007 - 2:45pm

Do they know you are having sex with other men?

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Registered: 07-06-2007
Tue, 07-31-2007 - 9:54pm

Unless the guys are really responsible men and have some integrity, they probably could care less how many men you're sleeping with as long as they are getting a piece of the action.

As far as your personal health and well being are concerned, there is nothing wrong with wanting to have fun and enjoy the single life, but do it responsibly. I'm sure you are aware of the risk factors involved as a result of having multiple partners, such as sexually transmitted diseases/infections (STDs, STIs), AID/HIVS, unwanted pregnancies, date rape, and so forth. Just be careful while you're having fun. You don't want to take baggage (and I'm talking about your clothing and personal belongings) with you to England.

Love, peace, and happiness!

Tina