my bitter sweet story (really long )

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Registered: 09-12-2005
my bitter sweet story (really long )
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Wed, 02-29-2012 - 12:02pm

It's been a long time since I posted here. It was because I was kind of in a relationship with a ....married man. We met exactly 5 months ago and I posted asking about friendship with married men. You were all right, it was a dangerous thing to do.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 6:54pm

Please join us :smileyhappy:

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 4:39pm
Can I come, too?
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Registered: 01-24-2011
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 9:30am

I heard from my ex that there are lots of Cubans in Toronto too. But I only know him.

I am moving to your city :smileyhappy:

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 9:29am

Yes I did date someone else after the Cuban guy.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 9:21am
'There will never be another tonight'. Your life is your own to do with as you wish, regardless of who thinks what of what you're doing with it. I say grab it whilst you can. Imho, being good and proper is for fools.


Hey, sometimes I do believe in this and seize the moments in life.

When it comes to love, it can be defeating at times. For example, being with someone only wants sex with you and you want a relationship. It causes more heartache than the good times.
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Fri, 03-02-2012 - 5:14am

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Thu, 03-01-2012 - 10:57pm

Oh, Anita!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 03-01-2012 - 10:57pm

My law firm does immigration law so I understand that people get married to come to the US--I don't know about Canada but in the US it's actually illegal to marry a person just to get legal status--it's supposed to be a "real" marriage and a lot of times they don't approve the person coming here if the consulate thinks it's a sham marriage.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Thu, 03-01-2012 - 7:48pm

I have a friend whose ex is Cuban too (they separated 6 months ago). My AP (affair partner) talked to him and told me that he had someone he was crazy about in Cuba and he lived with someone here. At the same time, my friend tells me that he still tells her that he loves her and he slept with her a couple of weeks ago. He also knows (through friends) that she's going out and calls her up on that haha.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Thu, 03-01-2012 - 7:43pm
misslynn76 wrote:
Hi Sireanita, remember me? I dated a handsome Cuban once and I can understand your attraction. He was and still is the best looking guy I ever dated/hooked up with.
However, I am concerned with this "He loves her and he.... loves me too. And that he can't leave her. That we can love each other without being in a formal relationship. "

Don't buy this line.

Of course I remember you. We discusses Cuban men (and there is a lot of them here in Mtl ;)

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