My Breakup Plan

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
My Breakup Plan
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Sat, 01-07-2012 - 6:44pm

Well, well, well. I am down to the wire.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2006
Sun, 01-08-2012 - 5:17pm
I was wondering the same thing. Even if they were in your line of sight for several hours before sex took place, some men take a lower dose on a daily basis instead of taking a large dose right before sexual activity. Unless you are bribing his doctor for copies of his medical records there'd be no way to know for sure.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 01-08-2012 - 9:37pm

I can only cite my experience, and I can only assure you of this:

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 12:24am
You can? Huh. I never knew there was a difference. I just figured it was all about blood engorging the area.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 3:39am

Exactly.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 8:13am

Ahh, you mean after they've had an orgasm?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 11:06am

My SO turned 50 and he will use Viagra on occassion. With him, its more of a mood thing (sounds weird, I know). But he says sometimes he just doens;t want to worry about it, so he will pop a pill.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 12:24pm

oh; thank you for that insight..

I have read, experienced and listened to many doctors on the radio and even spoke to men about this challenge and the general rule of thumb is that most men atleast over 55 cannot either get erections or sustain them for even short periods of time. the only man I know right now as we speak who is a sex monger is my ex husband who is 63 now.. I havent been with him in years but we talk on occasion and he says that he still takes meds for his restless leg sndrome and that medication makes him still a sex monger. Not sure if I believe him but he did have a wacky fling with a woman atleast two years ago and he said that she was sexually starved and they had sex everyday for two months.. and sometimes a few times a day.. Not sure I am buying into it and he has mental issues but who knows??

So I can bet that most men who need this medication dont come out and say they are on it or take it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 2:22pm

Maybe some men feel there is a stigma attached. SO went through a long dry spell, but he is the most sexual man I have elver met - what a bonus at my age!!!!!! And I am fine with him whether he takes or not.

I have another

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 4:14pm

No, I mean before.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 01-09-2012 - 4:31pm
You are right, and that is how I can tell if he took one