My crush got married....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2012
My crush got married....
Tue, 12-18-2012 - 3:46pm

I mentioned him awhile I was going to give him my number the next time I saw him.  Well, I did see him (probably last month) but , of course, I was running late and only got in a quick HI ~and~ 'I was going to give you my number but you haven't been around'.  He obviously wasn't interested because he never came around.  

Until today.

And he was wearing a very sparkly wedding band.  I saw it before he mentioned it and must have been pretty obvious in my dismay(I don't really remember being audible, maybe it was just my facial expression) and he raises his left, newly ringed hand and says with a sheepish grin, "oh yeah, I got married on Friday"

NOOOOOO!  The first guy, in 5yrs, that I finally find phone number worthy....and I was too late to the party.  

So now, I am crushed.  I actually had some heartache.  I don't even KNOW this guy in any real way but just opening the door a crack and even *thinking* about possibly....who gives a fig?  He would have made a move if he were interested and available.


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Thu, 12-20-2012 - 12:13pm
"enjoying your rich and powerful single life" I really like this line :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2006
Wed, 12-19-2012 - 7:29pm


It's disheartening I know. Time does heal all wounds. And I can guarantee you this: you will meet someone else who will make your heart sing, your body warm all over at the thought of him. Best of all he will feel loving and enchanted by you as well. Just be patient and keep enjoying your rich and powerful single life.


Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 12-18-2012 - 10:28pm
Men are so frustrating some times. It's annoying. There will be others. I'm sure of it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2009
Tue, 12-18-2012 - 9:05pm
Wow this sounds like something straight out of Sex and the City. I say you keep conversation going when you do bump into him. Perhaps he has a crushworthy friend he could introduce you to if he knows you're available.
Follow me to Coping with Job Loss

Follow me to Birth Control

Avatar for cfk_3
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
Tue, 12-18-2012 - 6:33pm

I say save the number for the next crush worthy guy.  Hopefully, you won't have to hand it to him, unsolicited.